Something I've recently realized..

[winters_lily]

Why I like people who are, well, "blunt", people who speak their minds: Because I feel as though I can trust them slightly more than most people. I'm often more comfortable with someone who speaks their mind at all times. I know how they're feeling, because they *say so*. I know if I've said or done something to upset them, because they'll tell me

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[sweetnepenthe]

~than the whole "try-and-guess-if-I'm-upset/mad-at-you/totally-indifferent-to-your-existence/have-a-problem-with-something-you've-said-or-done, and-now-try-and guess-why" thing.~

You said it! When I was in high school there was a girl (my friend I think) who was always nice to people she admitted, only to me, that she hated! Talk about wondering if she felt the same way about me. I was too busy wondering what she really thought to ever feel comfortable around her.

Anyway, enough ranting, and I hope you have a wonderful day!

[winters_lily]

~I was too busy wondering what she really thought to ever feel comfortable around her.~

Exactly. I would be rather be told outright that someone doesn't like me or has a problem with something than be left to wonder. It's such an uncomfortable feeling!

I hope you've had a wonderful day as well. :-)

[alabastardragon]

Why I like people who are, well, "blunt", people who speak their minds: Because I feel as though I can trust them slightly more than most people. I'm often more comfortable with someone who speaks their mind at all times. I know how they're feeling, because they *say so*. I know if I've said or done something to upset them, because they'll tell me. - That is Me.. to a tee and, as I have learnt, either a person loves or hates Me for it. Life is too short for arse kissing in My opinion and it takes balls to tell someone how you really feel and not everyone has that courage!

Even if honesty is painful, I would still rather be told the plain truth about how someone feels about me and/or my actions, than sit here and wonder what I've done wrong - Me too and those that are closest to Me know and do that. you can rest assured that I will always do that with you and expect the same in return. *hugs*

[winters_lily]

~you can rest assured that I will always do that with you and expect the same in return. *hugs*~

Thank you. :-) You can be sure that I will always be as honest with you as you are with me. *hugs back*