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[wis_coolbabe]

so i have always wanted a serious relationship. for a really long time. but as soon as this started i thought it was going too fast. and now it is all just rushing back at me, how totally rushed i am feeling now. i need time. i have always wanted someone to say that about me, but not now. not after 2 months. its way too soon. especially for

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[abuja]

i hope you feel better!!!!

[jason_01001101]

I don't know the whole story here and I don't know if you're asking for advice, but here are my two cents anyway.

I think that you should be considerate of his feelings, but you don't have any obligation to move fast just because he wants to. Relationships are constantly renegotiated, especially in the first few months, and they have to work for both people. If you want to slow down, then just say "I'm really flattered but let's go slower." If he's hurt then that will suck for him, but he'll get over it. If he decides to move on, then that will suck for you but you will get over it and find someone whose needs are more in tune with yours. You are young and beautiful and I'm sure you have plenty of options. And it's okay if you don't know exactly what you want right now. Maybe it will take a few serious relationships for you to get a clear sense of what you want out of one.

It think it's great that someone is so into you. Congratulations on that. I hope you feel better.