Comments | wisdomgiver: Lovers

wisdomgiver

Lovers

May 03, 2004 23:57

Ok, that last entry was kinda weird and off-topic because I didn't really know what I had in mind when I started to write it. This one, however, will be FUN. The topic: what makes a good lover. WARNING: social conservatives should not read further, or else agree to keep all comments to themselves :cP ( Read more... )

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anonymous May 5 2004, 10:34:34 UTC

So do you think it's possible that everyone is a good lover, but only with the person they connect with? And the reason some people are good lovers to more people is because they have the people skills to connect with more than one person?

wisdomgiver May 5 2004, 11:12:35 UTC

Well, in the first instance my answer would depend on context. Do I mean that for everyone there's a special someone out there that they will connect with enough to magically become a good lover? No. Oh I think we can find perfect emotional matches alright, but being a good lover is more about your OWN personal attitude. (Though admittedly finding that special someone CAN bring about a change in your personal attitude that will make you into a good lover). You can be a great lover even if your parter is clumsy or uncaring- having them just as involved simply makes it ten times better ( ... )