You are stronger than you give yourself credit for! *hugggs*
I completely agree with your methods, and would only add that I instantly remove the person from my electronic life. While I might not be so quick to ditch a card or shirt or whatever, if I can at least have a safe zone within my electronic world (cell, facebook, etc) then I know I can hide away in a space that's clean of their presence. I find it can be helpful.
Plus, you can't call or text someone you don't have a number for. :P
I am not as strong as I would like to be sometimes..*squishes*
See that is where I mess up, electronically. I delete their number right away and then guess who texts after a few weeks. Case in point,we broke it off what 2 years ago and right after Christmas I made a huge mistake with him. Then didn't hear from him, so in Feb. I get this text saying he went on a road trip and was thinking about me. I didn't text him back and left it alone. Another few weeks go by and he mails me from his FB account. That didn't make me mad, but the fact that he had the audacity to mail me with him and his GF's picture on it kind of did.But then I laughed(which is horrid of me, but hell hun I loved the 80's just not the hairstyles, and if you are trying to rub it in, make sure she is pretty)and wrote a nasty comment why I didn't text him back, without mentioning above comment.
So even though I delete his number he still texts. I just dont anymore. Okay my tangent is over. *smiles*
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I completely agree with your methods, and would only add that I instantly remove the person from my electronic life. While I might not be so quick to ditch a card or shirt or whatever, if I can at least have a safe zone within my electronic world (cell, facebook, etc) then I know I can hide away in a space that's clean of their presence. I find it can be helpful.
Plus, you can't call or text someone you don't have a number for. :P
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See that is where I mess up, electronically. I delete their number right away and then guess who texts after a few weeks. Case in point,we broke it off what 2 years ago and right after Christmas I made a huge mistake with him. Then didn't hear from him, so in Feb. I get this text saying he went on a road trip and was thinking about me. I didn't text him back and left it alone. Another few weeks go by and he mails me from his FB account. That didn't make me mad, but the fact that he had the audacity to mail me with him and his GF's picture on it kind of did.But then I laughed(which is horrid of me, but hell hun I loved the 80's just not the hairstyles, and if you are trying to rub it in, make sure she is pretty)and wrote a nasty comment why I didn't text him back, without mentioning above comment.
So even though I delete his number he still texts. I just dont anymore. Okay my tangent is over. *smiles*
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