Comments | witness_teens: A question?

kristinluffsyou in witness_teens

A question?

Oct 04, 2005 17:13

Okay, me and one of my guy friends are really close, there is no romantic attraction between the two of us, and we never get to talk for more then 10 seconds at the meetings...okay? Alright, so recently we've been talking on the phone quite a bit, like maybe an hour or so every night...Were both 13 (3 days apart to be exact) Would that be ( Read more... )

relationships/dating

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jeweled_angel October 4 2005, 23:58:25 UTC

well it seems harmless now but just be carefull. think about what you are talking about. is it pretty inocent?? or is kinda on the line? make sure that whatever you talk about is acceptable to jehovah cause remember he is listening too. other than that its nice to develop good relationships with our sisters AND brothers. just be cautious and it sounds like you are since it worries you.

jeweled_angel October 5 2005, 00:00:04 UTC

and it is only a date if it involves those type of feelings. but are you sure he is thinking the same thing as you. i would make sure hes not interested in being more than friends.

solitaryecho337 October 5 2005, 00:30:20 UTC

at your age, 13, you really shouldn't be thinking about anything serious as getting into a relationship that is deep. 13 is a young age to be getting into anything serious. believe me, by the time your 16 or 17 you'll have different views and tastes and will be a more mature individual than what you were at 13. The way i see it, once i get into college i'll start thinking about getting a little more serious into dating.

rubyzib October 5 2005, 00:59:35 UTC

i dont see how that could be considered a date if youre not attracted romantically. just be careful what you talk about and make sure both your parents know and i dont see a problem with it. youre 13. nothing wrong with having friends.

kristinluffsyou October 5 2005, 21:18:07 UTC

Thank you...I am 110 percent sure that he is un-interested in me, because we've talked about that already..and we've made sure of all that...there was a big discusion and yeah...i'm 100 percent sure. And i'm not persuing a realationship...not at all...i'm just making sure that it doesn't look like i'm doin that. :) Thanks! :)

I understand your situation mouiekat October 7 2005, 19:46:03 UTC

I am 21 years old and I college and my best friend is a dude. The only way it would be considered a date is if he actually says " hey this is a date" if not that you guys are just hanging out. With any situation when hanging around the opposite gender be careful with whatever you do and how you hangout because you can easily get in trouble and also make sure that other people know your situation so they don't think anything different and start spreading rumors..I know..i've been in that situation with my best friend many times. I had feelings for my best friend for a long time and him and I talked about it, but now him and I are cool with each other and we are close friends. Just be careful, and always remember , Jehovah is watching..always.

Re: I understand your situation kristinluffsyou October 7 2005, 19:50:42 UTC

Okay...I was really worried. I'm glad u guys informed me that is isn't a date and how to act. I know what is appropriate and not appropriate to talk about, so i only talk about appropriate things. And this was really starting to worry me becuase as u kno i wanna go on the list next year, and i don't want anything to stop that. Thank you! :)