Ok, so I'm over protective. I know this. Anyone who is a friend I would defend and most I would take a bullet for. When I hear someone I care for is in a potentialy painful situation it bothers me.
So he encounters my roomate at work, he is too cool to recognize her, he is too cool to remember my name, but he is not too cool to claim to know details about 2 people he doesn't recognize by face or name. His eyes wonder while his pompus and degrading tone comments mockingly towards lives he hasn't known for years. The most disappointing part was his definition of a promise ring.. basically that it means nothing. Most would consider it a romantic symbol of a promise for more to come but not him and all I can do is sit back and wait for things to fall because, as I've been taught, the best thing I can do is to disappear and not be in her life. And, of course, if I am not there then that cuts back no the feeling of 'Told ya so' though I would never say it but warnings were given. While my absence may be the best it doesn't keep me from getting upset.