Problems dont fix themselves.siberhuskyAugust 29 2010, 06:03:58 UTC
"I just accept the hurt and then find a way to remove myself from the pain. I don't like hurting people who mean something to me and my own pain by comparison doesn't carry the same weight with me. Being alone with myself is an easier thing to bear than to become the inflicted discomfort on those that have mattered to me."
In other words you decide to just run from your problems then ? Is that it? I tried that too, only I found that the problems will catch back up eventually. No I find it far more productive to look your problems squarely in the eye and deal with them. It usually makes it easier If you have as much information reguarding your problems but sometimes if it is important enough to you, you will go back. You will go back to the problem and sort it out . I do not accept the Idea that problems will just go away if you write some long sorrowful serenade and then just leave it be . Your making the fires worse Zim.
Re: Problems dont fix themselves.wolfsinnSeptember 22 2010, 17:23:50 UTC
Yeah,.. your idea of trying to fix things involves threatening, lying, and manipulating those that have done right by you. You can do this horrible things to people,.. and be okay with it to the point you come to think of yourself as the victim
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In other words you decide to just run from your problems then ? Is that it? I tried that too, only I found that the problems will catch back up eventually. No I find it far more productive to look your problems squarely in the eye and deal with them. It usually makes it easier If you have as much information reguarding your problems but sometimes if it is important enough to you, you will go back. You will go back to the problem and sort it out . I do not accept the Idea that problems will just go away if you write some long sorrowful serenade and then just leave it be . Your making the fires worse Zim.
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