Well, I would try to talk to her and understand why she feels that way. She clearly looks up to you, so maybe try to connect and explain that life is full of ups and downs, but the greatest thing is experiencing them. To try give her encouragement to live. Things to look forward to.
Also, I believe you have a moral obligation to her parents to tell them what she is thinking of doing. I believe a moral obligation to save a life is a stronger obligation than merely keeping a secret. Don't be vague. Be direct.
I'm really sorry you're in this tough spot. I've been there before, too, so I know how painful this secret can be. However, it is better to break a promise of secrecy than to watch someone you love die.
I hope things work out. From the bottom of my heart.
How specific are her thoughts? That's a good way to tell if it's teen angst or something deeper. If she says she hates life and wants to die, she's probably better off. If she says she has a bottle of sleeping pills in her room and she's pretty sure a dozen of them will kill her, then you should worry more. Plans are scarier than emotions, for you, because plans mean she's a lot closer to actually doing it
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Also, I believe you have a moral obligation to her parents to tell them what she is thinking of doing. I believe a moral obligation to save a life is a stronger obligation than merely keeping a secret. Don't be vague. Be direct.
I'm really sorry you're in this tough spot. I've been there before, too, so I know how painful this secret can be. However, it is better to break a promise of secrecy than to watch someone you love die.
I hope things work out. From the bottom of my heart.
Best of luck.
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