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Apr 14, 2008 06:00

argh ... well i guess they can't be fuly blamed. More my sense of stupidity, and all to easy ability to forgiive people and not recognize a pattern, but try to play devils advocate to even teh peopel that hurt me ; thinking "no - their good peopel , there must be a reason, they aren't really liek that" .. well again - with what seems to be like a ( Read more... )

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eurodancemix April 14 2008, 11:39:29 UTC
I'm sorry this has happened to you. I can assure you there are plenty of great guys out there. Yes, they *are* few and far between, but they are out there.

Keep on forgiving. Not only is that a good trait to have, it's also a healthy one. Not forgiving only harbors resentment and, in the end, it hurts you and only you.

People confuse "forgive" with "forget". Just because you've forgiven someone doesn't mean you have to forget what they did to you. Now, that's not an excuse to bring up the transgression repeatedly until the end of time. Rather, it's an internal point of reference for you to use so you don't get caught up in their bad behavior in the future.

Good luck to you. *hugs*

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slayercub April 14 2008, 11:56:40 UTC
I know we talked a little about this the yesterday. But you never told me how bad this was bothering you. I would have been happy to talk to you all day :) You know my number if you need anything.

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bigfundrew April 14 2008, 12:42:39 UTC
I'm sorry men are dumb.

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anonymous April 14 2008, 13:18:15 UTC
Since most of what you say is hard to understand, next time, why not try to focus on grammar, spelling, and punctuation? It might make what you are trying to say seem worth reading.

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eurodancemix April 14 2008, 13:31:53 UTC
Wow. How petty can one get?

If you're so holier-than-thou, why not post under your real ID instead of hiding behind "anonymous?"

You must have some pretty serious insecurities if this is your M.O.

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woofy191 April 14 2008, 15:34:46 UTC
perosnally i look at it as if their gonna be anonymous at least they know what their writing is rude and uncalled for so ..

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hbgpabear April 14 2008, 15:25:43 UTC
What brave anonymity. You must be so proud of yourself.

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jamiehbgbear April 14 2008, 18:14:01 UTC
I commented on MySpace.

Hugs,
Jamie

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