argh ... well i guess they can't be fuly blamed. More my sense of stupidity, and all to easy ability to forgiive people and not recognize a pattern, but try to play devils advocate to even teh peopel that hurt me ; thinking "no - their good peopel , there must be a reason, they aren't really liek that" .. well again - with what seems to be like a
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Keep on forgiving. Not only is that a good trait to have, it's also a healthy one. Not forgiving only harbors resentment and, in the end, it hurts you and only you.
People confuse "forgive" with "forget". Just because you've forgiven someone doesn't mean you have to forget what they did to you. Now, that's not an excuse to bring up the transgression repeatedly until the end of time. Rather, it's an internal point of reference for you to use so you don't get caught up in their bad behavior in the future.
Good luck to you. *hugs*
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If you're so holier-than-thou, why not post under your real ID instead of hiding behind "anonymous?"
You must have some pretty serious insecurities if this is your M.O.
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Hugs,
Jamie
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