I am exactly like you, I have my days. Mostly my hormones rule me. I have 2 good weeks of normal 3 if I am lucky and one of feeling ugly, fat, gross, stupid, and sad.
I define normal for me as being in control and being satisfied with myself, what I have done in life. In other words no worries about myself and my physical self. Once I don't worry or am disgusted with myself I have time to focus on other people on things other than myself. I am my own worse critict.
So to sum it up my world is normal when I don't fixate on myself. Although I do consider my bad days part of being normal too. I don't like my bad days, but if there weren't any bad days how could you tell when you were having a good day?
So that means that everything is normal then, right? If that is the case, then why does some normal feel better than other normal? Wouldn't normal always feel the same?
Normal according to what you consider normal. For example I remember seeing this old woman walk around town in the summers in Salem. She used to wear these really short but lose shorts. She wouldn't wear undies and you could see her vagina hanging out from inbetween her shorts. I mean hanging like testicles.
Walking around like that to me is not normal. LOL
I think the mood swings are somewhat normal, because of hormones. If you think that they are way too severe than I would consider talking to your MD.
I'm glad you posted about this, sometimes I do wonder if I am normal when I am in the middle of my hormonal crazyness. My emotions rule me and affect almost everything I do.
So yeah I think that for me having a week of sadness and emotional upset is normal. You have to determine what your normal is and just go with it. Laugh at yourself, try to stay above everything and have a clear understanding of why you are mad, or sad, or crying for any little thing.
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I define normal for me as being in control and being satisfied with myself, what I have done in life. In other words no worries about myself and my physical self. Once I don't worry or am disgusted with myself I have time to focus on other people on things other than myself. I am my own worse critict.
So to sum it up my world is normal when I don't fixate on myself. Although I do consider my bad days part of being normal too. I don't like my bad days, but if there weren't any bad days how could you tell when you were having a good day?
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Walking around like that to me is not normal. LOL
I think the mood swings are somewhat normal, because of hormones. If you think that they are way too severe than I would consider talking to your MD.
I'm glad you posted about this, sometimes I do wonder if I am normal when I am in the middle of my hormonal crazyness. My emotions rule me and affect almost everything I do.
So yeah I think that for me having a week of sadness and emotional upset is normal. You have to determine what your normal is and just go with it. Laugh at yourself, try to stay above everything and have a clear understanding of why you are mad, or sad, or crying for any little thing.
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