bisexuality exists!

[wordygirl]

I'm getting annoyed by how often the reality of bisexuality is ignored in our culture.

We were watching an episode of Queer as Folk recently and there were two situations in which the possibility that the characters might've been bisexual never crossed anyone's mind. In one situation

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[no2ndtroy]

What really annoys me is bi-phobia coming from others on the GLBTQIXYZ (sorry, can't resist--I don't even know what letters people have added anymore) spectrum. I seem to meet an awful lot of people who, even though they insist homo/heterosexuality isn't a choice, think bisexuals need to "choose" one sex or the other. (Example: bisexuals are "greedy", "sitting on the fence", whatever--gee, thanks, everyone! I appreciate having my choices belittled and looked down upon! If I'm greedy, that must make you jealous, right? And there IS NO goddamn fence.) Yay for blatant hypocrisy. It's not as annoying coming from straight people who, obviously, don't really understand what it's like to be queer.

Sigh...I guess all I really mean to say is, I agree. And I'm sick of it.

[angstygirl]

Clearly anything I can contribute to this is going to be completely redundant, but it's quite amusing how the comment above mine could just about have been ripped out of a recent email to you...

I can see why many lesbians are threatened by it

[sinistertim101]

Most women are much more open then men in terms of preference. I like mild BDSM and noticed something on one of my myspace communities with female dommes. 6 out of 7 were were bi. I could not find any bi men at all.

I wonder if many women who experiment with lesbianism are really bi or they are doing it to attract some boys (highschoolers).

I think many women who are lesbian even stay married to their husbands and stay in marriages causing nothing but hurt for the lesbians they date when they cheat.

This causes the taboo and I can see where they are coming from. I wonder if all people are bi? Wouldn't there be more closeted men?

Sometimes I think I am the only bi man in existance who is not gay in denial.

I agree, there don't seem to be any personals sites that

[lyrical_dancer]

fit very well. Most poly sites are extremely weighted toward the MFF "hot bi babe" scenario. I am bisexual, but much more interested in men, and am hesitant about getting into a poly relationship with one or both members of a long-term couple. I have some other friends who are bi, so we can discuss things in person.