why I became a lesbian

[wordygirl]

I've been thinking through the process that resulted in my coming out as a lesbian, and the various forces that shaped what felt to me more like a decision than a recognition of something biological or innate. While I do believe that for some women, the drive to have romantic and sexual relationships with other women is more or less hard wired (

Comments

[laguz_godin]

I quite fully agree in a lot of ways with your experiences and with what you have said here.
Yes, there are differences, but I too have felt almost the same thing at one time or another.
I am younger than you, and have figured out my polyamorousness at an early age, so if fact that I could change. evolve differently, but I do not think this will be so.
I always find your entries refreshing, in a way of seeing my own struggles through someone elses experiencses and thoughts.
Thank you.

-LeAnn

[bumbaclot]

i hope to grow someday to appreciate myself as unique as well. as i have thought that the pot smoking hippies and the video gaming dorks and geeks were "my people" even though smoking pot does not hold anything for me so i do not and i do not like wasting all my time playing video games. i just relate fairly well to these persons cultures and lifestyles more than any other.

it is good to know that someone else out there is experiencing the same thoughts.
thank you.

heya

[weavingfire]

I saw your post in poly_grrls and thought I would pop over. Do you mind if I add you, your journey seems interesting and thoughtful.

Re: heya

[wordygirl]

No, I don't mind at all. Thanks for asking!