i don't know sam...it seems to me that when you really care about a person you try not to remember the bad times b/c you don't want to see the bad qualitites of that person. you love to see them as perfect, which means remembering the good times and learning to forget the bad. sean's done a bunch of bad shit but i don't try to remember those times, i like to think of all the good times. why would you want to be let down? why would you wannt to see a failure instead of a valiant attempt? <3
Bri, refusing to look at a problem is as bad as lying to yourself. No one is perfect so trying to convince yourself that your significant other IS perfect is lying about it and making them someone they are not.
Im not trying to be let down. Being let requires being at a higher point. Im not at that higher point. Drayton is elevating himself only to be let down, he's lying to himself for no reason.. why keep the reminder of a ghost?
Bri for there to be a valiant attempt or a failure there must be an action. There is no action to speak of.
the action, sam, was you two trying to have a relationship together. it was you two trying to be a couple. nobod is pefect but believing that gives the world a grey outlook and makes you're life dull, miserable, and really not worth taking the time to live. everyone needs something to believe in and if that can't be the person you are closest to than what is it? drayton is "lying to himself" b/c he actually has been learned to look at life with the pain and hurt and beautifulness it brings. you understand that no one is perfect and then you try to find the ways they are, and that is being in love. sam...drayton thought you were perfect. the reminder of a ghost is all he has left now.
remember: it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. and that is the damn truth.
wow sam u have a questionable agenda. consider that nobody is perfect, as you said, consider that everyone is constantly growing and improving, and you will not want to be frustrated about drayton's excessive romantisicm. it was obvious that u 2 werent compatible but who knows the future? we dont. fate is a funny thing, theres only one fate that we should ever care about and its the ultimate authority on what was, what is and what will be. dont get mad at fate... its unstoppable. everyone knows that u and drayton are awesome people. so dont stress urself out, please. and realize that ur both kids (technically everyone is) and that for a long time you told him you didnt want him and led him to believe you did, so you messed with him pretty bad. guys like him feed off girls like you. but like i said, you will both most likely change. so no fighting.
2. you are wrong samantha, I kept the bad, if only as a reminder. sometimes i cant think of a good memory to counteract the bad ones. and newsflash, LIFE IS NOT PERFECT, RELATIONSHIPS ARENT PERFECT, there will ALWAYS be bad following good, if things are up they have no where to go but down. but there is no point in me posting about that, that wont bring you back, that wont make me happy. Would it make you happy. Do i remind you of such unpleasant things, am i a bad memory, do you regret me, do you regret "making love" as you so wonderfully put it. Do you regret, saying you could spend the rest of your life with me, do you regret seriously contemplating having MY kid, do you regret starting me smoking, do you regret falling for my bullshit, Do you regret love
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Im not trying to be let down. Being let requires being at a higher point. Im not at that higher point. Drayton is elevating himself only to be let down, he's lying to himself for no reason.. why keep the reminder of a ghost?
Bri for there to be a valiant attempt or a failure there must be an action. There is no action to speak of.
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remember: it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. and that is the damn truth.
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