He's not blaming it on me, he just likes having me as a really good friend.
I don't think he purposely takes advantage of me, or thinks I'm "convenient." I know that if he knew that this is what has been bothering me, he would feel completely horrible about himself for ever doing it in the first place. That's why I haven't told him. Also the fact that if it happened to most other people it wouldn't be that big of a deal at all. That makes it worse, because I wish it didn't bother me as much as it does. He's really a good guy and cares about me a lot. I probably made it sound differently in my post, but he's been there for me and helped me through a lot of things.
Have you guys been good friends for a really long time? It's easy for close friends to fall in love, but I'm wondering, and tell me if I've stepped over the line, but perhaps you are afraid that no one else will love you as much as he could, because you love him, so you want so badly for him to love you back?
He might have affection for you, but he may be too shy or can't find the words to tell you. Or maybe he is afraid that you don't love him back.
Self-consciousness sucks so bad. And I've been working on it a lot, but not too many people have noticed.
We've been good friends for about a year and a half or so. We go through times where he gets all weird and stuff, but we've been good for a while now. I consider him my best friend here. And this confused me, "perhaps you are afraid that no one else will love you as much as he could, because you love him, so you want so badly for him to love you back?" because I'm dumb like that, and don't understand simple english apparently.
He doesn't like me more than a friend. We've talked about it and stuff. He knows that I like him (or "used to like him" since now I claim I only like him as a friend), so he shouldn't be afraid to tell me if he really did like me.
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you can love him all you want, but in order to be "IN LOVE" ... you both have to be there.
sounds to me like the guy is a cad, and you're convenient.
run. run fast, and run far.
find someone who actually cares for you, gets to know you, falls in love with you, and marries you. then try again.
be careful with your heart and soul ... they're really all you've got. wasting them on people who don't really love you just leaves you empty.
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I don't think he purposely takes advantage of me, or thinks I'm "convenient." I know that if he knew that this is what has been bothering me, he would feel completely horrible about himself for ever doing it in the first place. That's why I haven't told him. Also the fact that if it happened to most other people it wouldn't be that big of a deal at all. That makes it worse, because I wish it didn't bother me as much as it does. He's really a good guy and cares about me a lot. I probably made it sound differently in my post, but he's been there for me and helped me through a lot of things.
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Have you guys been good friends for a really long time? It's easy for close friends to fall in love, but I'm wondering, and tell me if I've stepped over the line, but perhaps you are afraid that no one else will love you as much as he could, because you love him, so you want so badly for him to love you back?
He might have affection for you, but he may be too shy or can't find the words to tell you. Or maybe he is afraid that you don't love him back.
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We've been good friends for about a year and a half or so. We go through times where he gets all weird and stuff, but we've been good for a while now. I consider him my best friend here. And this confused me, "perhaps you are afraid that no one else will love you as much as he could, because you love him, so you want so badly for him to love you back?" because I'm dumb like that, and don't understand simple english apparently.
He doesn't like me more than a friend. We've talked about it and stuff. He knows that I like him (or "used to like him" since now I claim I only like him as a friend), so he shouldn't be afraid to tell me if he really did like me.
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Hehe, sorry.
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