FUCK

[wsunursing2009]

How come when you're already feeling down certain people have to just through the shit right back in your face....or as I like to say rub more salt in the wound....why? I e-mailed my caring step-mother for those of you who remember her last "happy b-day but I really don't know your b-day" e-mail.....anywho...I e-mailed her asking if she knew what

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[sharcie]

Ok you know this is a subject that I can relate to you on to an extent. I can't really say my dad has never been there for me. He has his off and on years. What I can say is tha, one day you will get over it, and the guy that yoour suppose to be with, won't let you push him away. He will stick around like your dad never did. Hey atleast your step mom sounds cool, mine a total BIZNATCH! I swear she is so uncomfortable around me. But maybe she is right, maybe that is how your dad feels and is. Maybe one day, and I would be glad to be you support, you should go see him. Tell him all this face to face. Make him realize what a jerk off he has been to not even try to call or write. You never know, maybe he has started to write you a thousand letters but never had the balls to send em. Or maybe he has tried to call you a thousand times but could never dial that last number. Too afraid of the anger or pain that might answer the phone.I love you Jen and I will always be right here for you any time you need me. I can be your moral support any

[wsunursing2009]

Biznatch....I like that word...hehe. I never thought about it that way....him trying to call or write....I guess that could be true. It's just like how'd he let it get this far?? What made him initially stop calling or writing? I guess those will never be answered but I definitely see what you're saying. Thanks for you words....I know that you are a true friend and I know that I can lean on you....Please know that you can do the same.

Thanks so much for everything.......I love you too!!

[debslover]

when I have time I'll reread this 5 or 6 times and either comment or won't ....lot's of issues involved here. Perhaps I can be of help in sorting all this out and give you some perspective...or maybe not...

Either way..I'm off to bed for now.

[debslover]

I can't help but point out the possibility that your fathers new bride may not be communicating any of this to your father in reality and is merely having a bit of sick fun at your expense

[sharcie]

I can say that Ed is a fella u can trust, and gives great upon great advice! hey Ed u never offer to call me..lol j/k no biggie!

[wsunursing2009]

OKAY Tianna....Spring Break trip to Florida...
To bad you couldn't pretend to be me and go up and knock on the door for me!! jk lol. That's the sad part like if cort or lid went up and knocked on his door and said that it was me...he probably wouldn't even know the dame difference.

We really need to save $$ and go on a spring break trip...come on!!!
Oh wait, what week is ur spring break?

[wsunursing2009]

ED:
HI, Thanks I really appreciate you words. I can see that she may not be relaying the messages...however....he choose not to call me and he choose not to pay any child support over the years and to run from the courts. I do see what you're saying however. I've thought about doing that since I know his address from the court papers, that's how I've been able to write letters to him, but I think I would be to scared of actually knocking on his door. Plus, if he slammed the door in my face I honestly think I would need psychiatric help...lol. However, he lives in Florida so that would be an added bonus to go during the winter months....okay who wants a road trip for spring break???? hehe lol.

I'm sorry to hear about you mother doing that to you, I guess sometimes it really sucks to be a young vunerable kid.....I feel bad now about complaining about my situation. Thanks for sharing your story with me.
Thanks for the advice and the offer to help more. It's truly appreciated.

[debslover]

I can't give you any serious advice on boys who want to be men and can't. Not without sounding like a concerned father or a jealous nutbag. I have no experience as a young female in your situation and can only remember what it was like to have been guilty of the crimes you've had commited against you by these boys.
Also, because I know you fear being caught, why don't you seek the 30 day shot to prevent rugratitis? Likely you can have it for free at a planned parenthood clinic.

Besides..i figure you're probably jabbering on the phone so much I'll likely never get thru anyways(grin)

[debslover]

It's ok to complain...but there's always a worse story somewhere for someone. I've come to terms with what happened and stopped worrying about why it happened. For years I considered it to be nothing but an old bitch being manipulative..but with age it comes clear that she just thought, as lame as it sounds, that she was doing the right thing. Those of us who have been thru it can fathom the pain and those who have not have not a clue nor will they ever.

[debslover]

In defense of my mother...my grandmother threatend to put her in a psych ward and adopt me if she didn't cooperate with her wishes...hence the wait to find out until my grandmother was dead. Again..everyone thought they were doing the right thing for me so I have no real burning desire to urinate on anyone's headstone.

Where at in Florida is this guy?..what city?

[wsunursing2009]

I believe either in Destin or right outside of Destin. I'll have to look it up he moves a lot. Why do you live around there? jk lol

[lidbonez86]

IM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SORRY ABOUT 2DAY [CEDAR POINT] I swear 2 GOD that i dreamt that i called u and told you that i couldn't go. But i guess i didnt cause i got that call from tianna. I am so sorry about 2day. I really am. I hope that you two are not mad at me, i honestly thought that i gave you a call last night when i got home, but i guess that i really didn't. I really hope that you girls are not mad at me.
Im very sorry, please 4give me

Lidz

[wsunursing2009]

Hey chica