Hon, I know this isn't going to be easy for you. I had a bit of a choice in my coming out, though it was forced and not when I would have chosen but -- yeah. I can only hope that your parents remember that you are their daughter and that they love you for who you are.
And if you need to talk or anything -- attachemoi@gmail.com is the easiest way to reach me and ensure that I get it. My IM things are in my user info but I'm rarely on. But if you email me and ask to chat, I can log on in a heartbeat -- as long as I'm not working =)
People are greatwynter_midniteNovember 26 2004, 07:25:47 UTC
I keep on saying it, people are good and great and amazing. Especially my close friends and people who take the time to read my lj and string a sentence together
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Re: People are great24_centuriesNovember 28 2004, 04:23:07 UTC
which is new and scary in a positive way.
Ohhh! *GLOMPS* It so is but it's so worth it =D I love being able to drool over girls and not worry that others are noticing and having to come up with a quick -- "I'd kill for that purse/shirt/scarf". Yeah. =D I had some pretty lame excuses in my day =) *facepalms*
I just need my parents to stop the un-gay related fighting so I can sit them down and talk about it 'cause I know without that, I'd never feel right about it.
Yeah. Totally. My mommy and I talked about it and still do. My daddy?
Me: Daddy -- I'm bisexual (didn't realise I was kidding myself at the time! Really believed it! =D)
Daddy: Um -- what's that mean? (*pinches Daddy's cheek* So cute!)
Me: It means I like boys and girls, Daddy. (no comment =D)
Daddy: Oh. Okay. Are you all right with that?
Me: Um. Yeah.
Daddy: Okay then.
To this day, I wish I had asked the question that was burning in my head -- "Are you all right with that??" -- but I never did and I never have. My Daddy has always
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I hope everything does go smoothly for you. -snuggly-wugglies- I'm still having a hard time figuring out my sexuality. As far as I know, I'm bi, and my parents are very...err...straight-ish people. I don't really know if I can tell them because I know they'd laugh in my face and say "You're 15! You don't even know what bi is yet!" I might just wait until I'm about 20 or something. =( Happy Belated Thanksgiving, dearie! I hope everything gets bettah for yew! ;____;
I know, I'm so glad I have the parents I do, it could be going better, but it could definately be going worse. I know people that have been kicked out of their houses, so I know I'm very lucky. It's odd for them and me right now, but we'll pull through because we love each other. *hugs*
Aww, sweetheart. *HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUG* I'm sure things will get better for ya. But that must not have been a fun thanksgiving. *sends lots of love and turkey legs your way*
LOL, most of this happened after dinner, so I was stuffed and fighting down an anxiety attck.. not a good combination, makes ya feel more queasy than usual in the situation. So no more turkey leg for me ^-^
*hugs back*
It wasn't the best Thanksgiving, but the day was, what it was. LOL, I feel so Zen lately.
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Hon, I know this isn't going to be easy for you. I had a bit of a choice in my coming out, though it was forced and not when I would have chosen but -- yeah. I can only hope that your parents remember that you are their daughter and that they love you for who you are.
And if you need to talk or anything -- attachemoi@gmail.com is the easiest way to reach me and ensure that I get it. My IM things are in my user info but I'm rarely on. But if you email me and ask to chat, I can log on in a heartbeat -- as long as I'm not working =)
*sends positive vibes by the tons*
*loves*
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Ohhh! *GLOMPS* It so is but it's so worth it =D I love being able to drool over girls and not worry that others are noticing and having to come up with a quick -- "I'd kill for that purse/shirt/scarf". Yeah. =D I had some pretty lame excuses in my day =) *facepalms*
I just need my parents to stop the un-gay related fighting so I can sit them down and talk about it 'cause I know without that, I'd never feel right about it.
Yeah. Totally. My mommy and I talked about it and still do. My daddy?
Me: Daddy -- I'm bisexual (didn't realise I was kidding myself at the time! Really believed it! =D)
Daddy: Um -- what's that mean? (*pinches Daddy's cheek* So cute!)
Me: It means I like boys and girls, Daddy. (no comment =D)
Daddy: Oh. Okay. Are you all right with that?
Me: Um. Yeah.
Daddy: Okay then.
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*hugs back*
It wasn't the best Thanksgiving, but the day was, what it was. LOL, I feel so Zen lately.
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