Journals?

[xandriasboy]

The main reason I signed up for Livejournal was to keep a service journal for Goddess. Although I have never been able to come up with a decent term for WIISWD ("slave" has bad historical connections, "submissive" sounds like Casper Milqtoast, etc.), I had hoped to network with others who played the service role in this lifestyle. In particular, I'

Comments

[xavienne]

A few thoughts based on this post -- I think most pro-Dommes have to be a bit more submissive than truly dominant; after all, they make their money doing what the so-called submissive male wants. That may also be the reason there are so few truly female-dominant households out there.
I've encountered lots of boys who either want to be the brat and get the punishment that turns them on, or are spineless guppies who are not the least bit interesting to me. (They are the kind who tend to write to fem-dom boards about wanting to be permanently castrated.)

[kookaburra1701]

Most of what I get are men who think that lifestyle=all kinky sex, all the time.

[kookaburra1701]

I encourage you to keep up with this journal. I have only been reading for a few days, but it has been very beneficial for me to see what goes on day-to-day in a multi-person BDSM household.