A nice guy, Hurt once again!

[xargonbr]

I always seem to find myself in a situation, that I end up getting hurt in. Although this last one, there was something diffrent about it. Rather than getting hurt and withdrawling completely I was supprised to find that I was unwilling to leave. Now I said that I was gonna leave and did, but hopefully this will not have killed my chances

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[whitiglil]

Well, i basically gave you my view on it. You have another fun one on myspace... Just like men compartmentalize, women seem to classify friends and use different friends for different things, aspects of their lives. So they have the boyfriend for love and dating and stuff, and other friends to hang out with, and some friends to pour your heart out to and get feedback from (AKA, have explain guys to them, which seems to be your alleged role?)... Anyway, yeah, it's a sucky situation, but perhaps it is you who goes after the wrong types, the ones who really truly put you in the friend zone who you shouldn't even think of in any way more... Perhaps you play the game wrong, I don't know what to tell you, as I'm not much better... Half of my relationships were asexual and/or pointless... However, despite that, I'm not an example because I don't work that way. Women perhaps use you because they feel safe and protected and like they don't need to be self-conscious around you, and don't have to worry about the sleaze-ball trying to get

[xargonbr]

true I wish that I could see the hole before they just end up under my feet...

[whitiglil]

Oh, but you can... All you have to do is look at everything surrounding situations. If you look closely enough, you'll see that everything generally always plays out the same way, and the people generally exhibit the same personality traits every time. Sure, the story may kinda change and the name and appearance, but essentially, it's all the same shit... If that fails, you could always ask a trusty friend, as sometimes the outside observer sees it all best...

[mystrul]

LOL yeah I hate to agree with what shirley just said but its true. Lets take me for instance I always choose the needy fake as hell women for my SO. And I don't change willingly ever. So they are needy and I need space, They are fake and I quickly exhaust all viable avenues of conversation with them, oh and dumb. forgot that one. I want a girl that dosent just appear smart but is smart. If she cannot beat me in frickin scrabble then its damn dissapointing.however with the dumbones my parental side kicks in and I start to defend them (why i don't know) and thereby earn their affection (again I have no clue why). in the end i have some retarded, needy fake person hanging on me and hunding me day in and day out because i showed some sympathy. I CAN SEE MY HOLE AND IT DOES ME NO GOOD! I keep looking backwards at all the other holes I have fallen in and not looking forward to dodge the next one. So a better idea is simply to tromp forward blindly because at least that way your head is on straight. =P That and when your looking forward its