a LONG long survey, which someone asked me to do. Good stuff here. GOOD STUFF. :)
1. Are you male or female?: “I'm just a girl with a crush on you” -Britney “cant make you love me”
2. Describe your neighborhood: "A safe home and a warm bed on a quiet little street." - Three Doors Down "Be Like That."
3. How Do You Look?: “Such a beautiful girl walking down the street seen those bright brown eyes with tears coming down she deserves a crown but where is it now” - Justin “Senorita”
4. If you could say something to the person you like, what would it be?: " You can call me selfish But all I want is your love You can call me hopeless baby Cause I'm hopelessly in love” - NSYNC “Selfish”
5. Where do you wish you were right now?: “'Cause I want nothing more Than to sit outside Heaven's door And listen to you breathing It's where I wanna be” - Lifehouse “Breathing”
6. What would you say to your best friend?: "She wants a good time No need to rewind
She needs to really really find what she wants She lands on both feet Won’t take a back seat There’s a brave new girl And she’s comin’ out tonight” - Britney “brave new girl”
7. Any words of wisdom?: “And it all boils down to one quotable phrase "If you love something, give it away."” - Bright Eyes “One Foot In Front Of The Other”
8. What do you think of alcohol?: “It’s getting late to give you up I took a sip from my devil's cup slowly It’s taking over me” - Britney “Toxic”
9. If you could say one thing to your enemy, what would it be?: Let’s play this game called “when you catch fire” I wouldn’t piss to put you out” Fall Out boy “My list of many things to do”
10. What is your favorite season?: “Kiss me at midnight Dance until the morning light Party into the New Year” - NSYNC “kiss me at midnight”
11. How do you feel right now?: "I won't worry my life away." - Jason Mraz "The Remedy"
12. What do you hate?: “If you look back in history, it's a common double standard of society The guy gets all the glory, the more he can score While the girl can do the same, and yet you call her a whore” - Christina “Can’t hold us down”
13. What would you say to an ex of yours?:
”I used to be your girlfriend and I know I did it well Oh yes you know its true You'd call me Cinderella All you had to do was yell And I'd be there for you Here I am So try to forgive me I don't believe in fairy tales Here we are with nothing but honesty I've had enough I'm not gonna stay” - Britney “Cinderella”
”Think of all the time That I've wasted Think of all the times That I took you back Ain't no way I'll be lonely I don't wanna Let you back in” - Britney “Lonely”
”Your friends are sorry for me They watch you pretend to adore me But I'm no fool to this game Now here comes your secret lover She'd be unlike any other Until your guilt goes up in flames” - Sheryl Crow “My Favorite Mistake”
”Would have given up my life for you guess it's true what they say about love It's blind you lied straight to my face looking in my eyes and I believed you 'cause I loved you more than life and all you had to do was apologize…and mean it.” - Justin “Never Again”
”The beautiful days are long gone I can’t seem to breathe It feels like it hasn’t been that long since you walked away from me Now I can try to act real strong But you and I both know I still think of you that way” - Justin “Still on my brain”
14. What are you thinking about right now?: “Why - why are we still friends When everything says We should be more than we are And tell me why every time I find Someone that I like We always end up just being friends” - 98 Degrees “Why”
15. What do you think of love?: “When I fall in love I take my time There's no need to hurry when I'm making up my mind” - Jason Mraz “The Remedy”
16. How would you describe all the girls in your life?: " Ooh, I'm overdue gimme some room, I'm comin' through paid my dues, I'm in the mood me and my girls gonna shake the room DJ's spinnin, show your hands, let's get dirty, that's my jam, I need that ... to get me off, sweatin' till my clothes come off” - Christina “Dirrty”
17. How do you handle things?: “if I knew all the words I would write myself out of here” - Jason Mraz “0” interest”
18. How is life?: “who are we is who we are when the act of love can get us so far” - Jason Mraz “Better”
19. Who are you?:
” Sexy as I wanna be got these fellas chasin' me It's about time I hit the streets all my girls still feelin' me B girl ain't lost the beat jumped over drama and I landed on my feet
Gotta keep goin' no stoppin' me And if you don't like it, then La la la la la la la” - Britney “Outrageous”
All you people look at me like i m a little girl Well did you ever think it'd be ok for me to step into this world Always saying little girl don't step into the club Well i'm just tryin' to find out why cause dancing is what i love” - Britney “Slave for you”
”When you look from outside All you see is videos and shows but there's more to my life than people could ever know sometimes I gotta smile When I don't feel like smiling Sit back and ride When I feel like driving” - Usher “follow me”
"Just one moment with Christie you know exactly what I mean she stays a night and then she leaves just a little hope in between one more moment with Christie It's like a lifetime where've I been I want to live to the extreme I need another taste of Christie" - Ben Jelen "Christine" (yea I changed them to Christie's, oh well).
20. What would you do with a million dollars?: “And I would be rich And I would build all my world around you Just to show you How you take my breath away” - 98 Degrees “Take My Breath Away”
21. Anything else you wanna say?: “People ask why I'm in love with you Well, let me start by saying You got my heart by just being who you are” - Christina “Loving me 4 me”
Section 1-Crush Info
1.)Do You Currently Have a Crush? Umm…John?
2.) Who was your first crush? Jeremy Bohn in the 3rd grade
3.) What made you like them? With Jeremy I don’t know, I was 8, leave me alone lol, with John…he’s….wonderful
4.) Did you ever ask them out? Jeremy - no, he was actually dating one of my friends and John- well that sorta worked out :)
5.) Did you tell them that you liked them? They both found out with time
6.) Did they like you back? Like I said, Jeremy was dating one of my friends, and I’m with the other one so yea :)
7.) What was their middle name? Jeremy - I have no clue. John- Christian
8.) Was the person a male or a female? male
9.) Did you ever go out of your way to try to impress them? Nope, its sort of a “like me for me” relationship, I go out of my way to do things, but its not meant to impress them
10.) How did they react? Surprised… :)
11.) Did you ever write them a love letter? Come to think of it, I think I wrote Jeremy one, damn I wish I still knew him so I could read it now. For John, well…ask him :)
12.) Do you still have contact with them today? Haven’t seen Jeremy since the 3rd grade, and I see John everyday
13.) If they didn't know you had a crush on them back then, would you tell them now? Sure, we could laugh about it. Doesn’t necessarily mean I’d still have a crush on him now though
14.) Do you still have a crush on that person? I don't even know Jeremy anymore
Section 2-Bad Love Relationships
15.) Who is your worst ex? hard to say, depends on what you mean by worst...
16.) What went wrong in your relationship? I cared too much, I get too attached and they get too... unattached
17.) Would you ever consider going back to that person? Yes and no
18.) Why or why not? I have reasons…
19.) Were you in love with them? I’ve loved 3 people, I’ve been IN love once. You do the math.
20.) If you were, was the love one sided or did they love you back? In my eyes, love is only love if it is two ways, otherwise it is infatuation. But at times I felt it was one sided
21.) Describe your relationships in 1 sentence:
old/bad ones: “Would have given up my life for you guess it's true what they say about love It's blind you lied straight to my face looking in my eyes and I believed you 'cause I loved you more than life and all you had to do was apologize…and mean it.” Good ones: “I've found a reason for me To change who I used to be A reason to start over new and the reason is you”/ “Our love was, comfortable and so broken in he's perfect, so flawless”
22.) Do you miss that person? Everyone always misses someone from their past
23.) Do you still think about them? Umm…sometimes…but we’ve moved on
24.) Dream about them? My dreams involve them sometimes, but they’re always weird
25.) Long for them? Not really…I’m happy with who I am now, as are they
26.) Are you 2 still friends? Define friend
27.) Which one of You Dumped the other Person? I’m laughing ‘cause it’s funny but I’m not gonna share
28) Name one thing about that person that absolutely disgusted you: I don’t know…
29.) If you could go back and change one thing about your relationship with that person, what would it be? I wouldn’t change a thing, things happen for a reason, and I finally understand what people mean when they say that
30.) If things changed, Would you like to try again? No one knows what the future holds
31.) Why or why not? (read above)
32.) Do you forgive this person? I don't know what I'm forgiving him for
Section 3- Love Life
33.) Do you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend or both? Yup, John
33.) Where did you meet? school
34.) How long have you been together? A month and 15 days.
35.) Who asked who out? He asked me out
36.) What is their name? John
37.) What is their age? 19
38.) What is your age? 19
39.) Who had a crush on who first? He did first, I wasn’t too fond of him at first ‘cause he was the “guy that every girl liked back in HS” type and I didn’t go for that. But I was completely wrong and …. things happened :)
40.) How did you find out that this person like you, or how did they find out that you liked them? Hard to explain, but he was there for me when I was going through things, and so…things happened
41.) Did you 2 date before you became a couple? yes and no
42.) Describe your first date with this person: that’s for me to know and you to find out
43.) Was the date fun? loved every minute of it
44.) What attracted you to this person? everything
45.) What is their best quality? His sense of humor, we share a brain when it comes to the same type of jokes
46.) Worst quality? Its not really his fault, but everyone seems to be attracted to him in some way, its sort of intimidating but its refreshing to find someone who gets hits on right in front of you and he pays no attention to them and focuses on you
47.) How do you feel about your relationship? Its good, I’m happy
48.) Do you remember your first kiss with this person? Yup :)
49.) How was it? You don’t need to know that…
50.) Were you still fantasizing about your first kiss a week after it happened? I don't remember
51.) Name something that makes this person awesome: his eyes, he talks with his eyes
52.) What do you believe is the strongest part of your relationship? We understand each other
53.) Weakest? Trust. I trust him, don’t get me wrong, I do, completely. But there’s room for more. And people that know me know that I don’t often trust a lot of people. But he’s getting up there, and he understands why.
54.) Can you relate to this person on an emotional level? Yup, he’s been there through times when I’ve lost it, even before we were dating
55.) Were you sexually attracted to this person the first time you laid eyes on each other? He’s one of those “good looking people” so it was intimidating, but yea, there was definitely an attraction there on both parts
56.) How many hours a week do you spend talking to your mate? a lot, I couldn’t even count
57.) Spending time with your mate? a lot, usually inbetween both of our schedules
58.) Name something that you love about this person: I can’t name just one thing…
59.) Did You 2 begin as Friends? yup
60.) Do you remember the exact date on which you two became official? Yup, 2-22
61.) Do you remember the exact date of your first kiss? Yup
62.) Your first date? Same as the day we “became official”
63.) When was the last time you saw them? A couple hours ago
64.) In the event that you 2 breakup: we’ll remain friends definitely…beyond that, I don’t know….
65.) Can you see love beyond this person? I don't know, I’m not IN love with him…
66.) Could you see yourself being with this person forever? Not yet…
67.) Why or why not? He’s amazing and more than I could’ve ever wished for…but I’d have to give it time, take things slow
68.) Describe this person in one sentence: “Your lips, your love, your smile, your kiss I must admit it's a part of me, you please me, complete me, believe me like a melody”
69.) Describe how you feel about this person in 1 sentence: “and how can I stand here with you and not be moved by you would you tell me how could it be any better than this” - Lifehouse
70.) Describe your relationship in one word: unpredictable
71.) Is this the most meaningful relationship you have ever been in? umm…it’s sort of a tie, I guess, but its up there
72.) How often do you two fight? We haven’t yet
73.) When was the last time you 2 fought? We haven’t had a serious fight yet, we pretend to argue about small things
74.) What was the fight over? n/a
75.) When you two get into a fight, how do you resolve the argument? n/a
76.) Have you ever cried over this person? I’ve cried ‘cause of something (good) he’s done, but not OVER him.
77.) Has this person ever cried for you? I dunno
78.) Why? Why what?
79.) Have you two ever cried together? No
80.) Over what? n/a
81.) Do you cry in front of them? Yup, they were there to help me through a difficult time a few weeks ago
82.) Do you feel that this person loves you as much as you love them? We care about each other the same way, just as much
83.) Do you think they are your soulmate? Ummm….*shrugs*
84.) Do you feel that your relationship will last? Maybe, you never know
85.) Would you rather make love, have sex, or fuck this person? The first since it has emotion, while the other 2 are just acts
86.) Have you already made love to them? What does it matter to you?
87.) If you have been intimate with this person, what was your reasoning for doing so? Mind your own business
Section 3 - Your Opinions And Thoughts On Love
88.) Do you believe in soulmates? yes
89.) Do you believe that you have already found your soulmate? Umm…
90.) If no, do you believe that there is one person out there that was put on this earth specifically for you, and you for them? Oh I believe that alright….
91.) How important is love in the presence of a relationship which is sexually intimate? depends on how you define the relationship, some people are just fuck buddies, if that’s the case then love shouldn’t be involved.
92.) Would you ever have sex with a person before you fell in love with them? Everyone would, and everyone does
93.) Do you believe in forever? I HATE that word, HATE it….but you could dream about forever, even though it may never happen
94.) What is the longest relationship that you have ever been involved in? we’re not gonna go there
95.) Do you believe that gay/lesbian marriage should be legal? Yes, we’re all humans, despite our sexuality. Besides you cant help who you love.
96.) Why or why not? (read above)
97.) What is your sexual orientation? straight
98.) Should gay couples be able to adopt? Yes, I don’t see a reason why not. Their sexual preference doesn’t depict the kind of parents they would be.
99.) Have you ever passionately kissed someone of the same sex? no
100.) Did you feel odd doing it? n/a
101.) Do you want to get married? maybe, someday
102.) In the event that you fall in love in high school, would you ever marry upon graduation? Ummm, I’m passed that
103.) Do you believe that -open- relationships are OK? I was gonna say never….but I’ll say this, it’s ok if love isn’t involved. If 2 people don’t love each other, then so be it, that would be up to them, be as open as you want…but if they’re in love, then no, never.
104.) Are teens mature enough to really fall in love? Some let their emotions take over and a lot of the time they are blinded by infatuation…so I don’t know
105.) Have you ever been in love? Yes, we went over this. (read one of the questions above)
106.) Do you understand the difference between lust and love? Yes I do, in fact a few months ago, I wrote this long ass paper about it
107.) Are people who feel in love more likely to have a sexual relationship? yes
108.) How old were you when you had your first "in love" relationship? 18/19
2004 so far:
1. where were you when it began?: I don’t remember, but I know I wasn’t drinking lol
2. did you stay up?: yea
3. what was your new year wish?: if I say it, then it wont come true. Even though I don’t they never do
4. where will you be when it ends: the year? I don’t know.
5. how many relationship partners?: have I had this year? One. With 3 borderline.
6. broke up?: mmm. No.
7. have any crushes?: yup
8. care to mention names?: no, other than John
9. new friends?: so far, yea, Ryan, Amber, Heather, Jason, Mike, Brent, Kelly, Jeff, Jake….I know I’m missing some people
10. had to say goodbye?: not really goodbye….but I’ve lost/am losing touch with a few people
11. missed anyone?: yea
12. win anything?: not yet
13. best place you went to?: so far? The Britney spears concert!
14. worst place you went to?: haven’t had any bad ones yet
15. happiest moment?: I have a few….
16. how was your birthday?: haven’t had it yet
17. best present?: n/a