ever wanted to tell a friend the truth about what you thought of them but you know it'd totally fuck everything up? yeah... i'm there. (yes its hateful)
Yep. If this person is a toxic influence on you and your life, then be honest with them (not attacking, but honest) and let them go. If you're angry about one or two things that can be talked about to their solution (and expressed so that this person knows what they're doing wrong and has a chance to not do them again), allow them the chance to know they hurt you and how, and to apologize. If you've been festering about something for several weeks now, however, and still have not made resolution with this person, it's a bit late, and it's time to let go. Forgetting about it and forgiving it is pretty much the common thread between all three of these things, because the more you hang onto your hatred, the worse its effect becomes on you. So, let it go, speak what you must, and move forward. Gee, don't i say that a lot? *hug*
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If this person is a toxic influence on you and your life, then be honest with them (not attacking, but honest) and let them go.
If you're angry about one or two things that can be talked about to their solution (and expressed so that this person knows what they're doing wrong and has a chance to not do them again), allow them the chance to know they hurt you and how, and to apologize.
If you've been festering about something for several weeks now, however, and still have not made resolution with this person, it's a bit late, and it's time to let go. Forgetting about it and forgiving it is pretty much the common thread between all three of these things, because the more you hang onto your hatred, the worse its effect becomes on you.
So, let it go, speak what you must, and move forward. Gee, don't i say that a lot? *hug*
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