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[xenadrummergurl]

I have been in Oregon for a couple months now. I don't know if what I have been going through is a good or bad thing. I guess it could be good for the growing experience but it could also be bad because of the constant stress I go through because of it. I am happy being back but the constant pull of my friends to help them with their every problem

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[zander_nao]

I know how that goes. I spent the last four years hounding, nagging, and begging my roommate at college to do his assignments, his chores, to go to bed at a decent hour, to call his parents back, and essentially nag him so he would live and do more than play video games. It was exhausting, and in the end he didn't learn anything. The only advice I can give is that you may need to find new coping strategies or to distance yourself. It's a sad thing when people can't take care of themselves and there's only so much people can do.