"Why don't you have a boyfriend?"

[xenatia]

I had one of those 'horrible, embarrassing because I couldn't stop rambling' moments at work today. It was with one of the girls at work who I'm quite close with, and I can't even remember what we were originally talking about... I think I was making a silly joke and then suddenly, out of the blue, she cocked her head to the side, gave me a really

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[fairy219]

I agree. 100%

[animegirl29]

The only time I've had a 'boyfriend' was when I was in year 9 but we didn't do anything...I watched a movie with him and his friends and that was it so technically, it's not a boyfriend yes? YES?! But yeah, I'm guilty for playing with emotions there but I was dumb like all teens are ;3; But from that experience, I've learnt that there's nothing really special in having a boyfriend if you don't feel anything...

But moving on, when you do find someone, they will be very lucky because of your morals and just that you're so kind in general! =]

[xenatia]

Animegirl29 - Yes, it's true, it doesn’t count. My definition of a boyfriend is someone whom you actually emotionally invest in. I really loved how you said "I've learnt that there's nothing really special in having a boyfriend if you don't feel anything..." - it's so true. Relationships are so high-maintenance, so why bother if you're not that into them?
And awwwww. Thanks! You're too kind! You should see me when my blood sugar levels are low! I'm no fun then ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[anonymous]

yes relationship takes lots of work and why go through emotional roller coaster for someone you don't even truly love.
I believe everytime you break up, the harder it is to see your true love when he's there in front of you because you will be traumatic and no longer trust yourself.

[fairy219]

^ that was me!!

[xenatia]

Thanks Fairy! You always make me feel better! You're such a sweetheart!!!