My instincts wrong, or another stupid girl?

[xfreshbreadx]

Meg, or as we affectionately call her Sue, has a boyfriend. Fortunately she revealed this tid bit nicely and like a championship NFL player I recovered the fumble and ran with it as if I knew it was going to happen, or more to my stylings I took a rastiera like the true capoeira I am and kept moving. You see I called her to hang out but had the

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[anonymous]

I hear what you are saying and I respect your opinion but your perspective and analysis has been somewhat biased and confused by your male life experiences and testosterone. I will lay out another option for Sue's behavior from the female perspective, and by female I mean someone who is in the know with respect to men, a.k.a dogs. Most girls do not think every guy that talks to her wants to hit it. As hard as that may be for you or most guys to understand girls just do not think that way unless they have either a) spent some time around many many guys who are dogs (as I have) or b) have had a negative experience with a guy who seemed like a friend but really just wanted to hit it. In the immortal words of Harry from When Harry Met Sally, "a man cannot be friends with a woman he finds attractive because the sex will always get in the way." To wit Sally replies, "so a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?" And Harry lays it out for her quite prophetically by saying, "nah you pretty much want to nail them too!" So

[anonymous]

Yo - who wrote this? Was it Xinxilla (sp?) I am going to call it the "New Testament" to my new religion, "Respectology" Thank God women think this way - it means there is hope for guys and girls just being friends. Everyone knows Vermelenho is just abnormally frisky. Women giving us the benefit of the doubt and here we are not believing it or messing it up. It's a shame. SHAME!

[xfreshbreadx]

My opinion is more on be half of her boyfriend who I imagine is ignorant to the fact that she is giving her phone # out to new male figures, regardless of her intentions or theirs (the male figures). DO you want your boyfriend giving his phone # to new ladies? Would a new female friend for you man be harmless? Even if she was would you consider her to be? I think friendship with a girl can be fine, as I am seeking and intending to settle into with surfer girl, but I also think, while feelings may not always be reciprocal, certain signs are blatant at the begining of friendships that would indicate a parties desire to go beyond friendship. I feel those signs were given and dictate that when the exchange of phone numbers occurred a statement should have been made revealing boyfriend/girlfriend status of both parties. By avoiding this statement sue willfully accepted the prefix of "stupid" to her name or the alternative "plausible trick ass ho." So in conclusion male female friendships without sex is not a concept I find impossible

[anonymous]

A girl at school giving my man her number is completely harmless because, unlike your relationships and the trick ass ho's you associate with, my relationship is built on 110% trust and loyalty. It is for this very reason that I have no problem with my boyfriend going to a strip club if he wants to, trust, and the same reason that he in turn says "no I don't need to go to a strip club", respect. I know you are thinking from the boyfriends perspective but I think that perspective is retarded. 90% of guys think just like you and just like her boyfriend, "what you gave your number to some random guy at school, you stupid slut." The other 10% think like this, "oh man he probably wants to bang you, who wouldn't your so hot. Be careful." Then subsequently you trust your chick to just be giving the number for school reasons or because she wants to make friends. If she turns out to be a trick ass ho then you saved yourself the heartache of finding out later, she is a slut and you should dump her right there. I think its a matter of maturity