New developments.: talks of a separation then turned into a discussion where I let him rip into me, since I tend to be a much better arguer. That went well(for him) and he did make some good points
but now. now he wont move. he wants to stay in Virginia and enjoy the friends and such here he has just cultivated. Fair enough really- what can I say? This has been a long, 5 years long, planning to move tho.
It just keeps getting more and more hard to maneuver for anything. I think HE wants a nice long spell of feeling in control and like I'm doing what HE says. Not in a caveman way. It's way more subtle. More like in the usual fashion of people and their control issues. He clearly needs way more than he feels he has.
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How are you doing?
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talks of a separation
then turned into a discussion where I let him rip into me, since I tend to be a much better arguer. That went well(for him) and he did make some good points
but now. now he wont move. he wants to stay in Virginia and enjoy the friends and such here he has just cultivated. Fair enough really- what can I say? This has been a long, 5 years long, planning to move tho.
It just keeps getting more and more hard to maneuver for anything. I think HE wants a nice long spell of feeling in control and like I'm doing what HE says. Not in a caveman way. It's way more subtle. More like in the usual fashion of people and their control issues. He clearly needs way more than he feels he has.
I'm tired. I dont care right now.
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Get some "sleep".
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