College always brings people down to these levels. It's so much stress, so much to handle. Teachers in high school brag about how they're preparing you for the real world, when really... they aren't doing anything but making sure you get the grades to move on. In the real world, it takes more than academics to get you through, and that's what ends up messing with people.
Just... take it easy. Yes, college is stressful, but you'll make it through! Weaker people have gone through and gotten out with their skin intact. Hell, I've gone through it.
I know I don't know you all that well that, and I know you don't know me all that well, but I want you to know that you can talk to me whenever you need to. And you can call me any time! Also, when I get a car, we will be hanging out more.
Oh, and, about the affection thing. Do what makes you happy. I wouldn't say tell them now, or act on it now, but at some point you will need to live for you, not for anyone else. If you find someone who makes you happy and loves you for you, and you love
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yeah, it's a little ridiculous, in a way. then again, i worry and stress unnecessarily about practically everything, so this shouldn't be too much of a surprise for me. your icon is like such a perfect fit for how i feel when i think about college, lmao. but yeah, i'mma try my best and hope that the stress doesn't somehow eat me alive. hopefully i'll make it out okay
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I'm about to start new life in University as well (not really confirmed or anything, results out end of this July) and all this time parents been nagging me to start looking for my ideal course to take since I'm (hopefully) gonna be in at for the next four friggin years. so believe me when I say I know how much stressful it is. it's not like it's been confirmed (my results are just5 so so) but then they're like already making plans for me and all...expecting me to be this and that once I graduate like wth... seriously, I miss high school life...
yeah, isn't it kind of ridiculous, the expectations parents have? :\ i'm glad that someone else is in the same boat, but at the same time i'm not so happy that you have the same stress. hopefully we'll both be able to get through this and maybe once school starts it'll be a little less scary. (:
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Just... take it easy. Yes, college is stressful, but you'll make it through! Weaker people have gone through and gotten out with their skin intact. Hell, I've gone through it.
I know I don't know you all that well that, and I know you don't know me all that well, but I want you to know that you can talk to me whenever you need to. And you can call me any time! Also, when I get a car, we will be hanging out more.
Oh, and, about the affection thing. Do what makes you happy. I wouldn't say tell them now, or act on it now, but at some point you will need to live for you, not for anyone else. If you find someone who makes you happy and loves you for you, and you love ( ... )
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so believe me when I say I know how much stressful it is. it's not like it's been confirmed (my results are just5 so so) but then they're like already making plans for me and all...expecting me to be this and that once I graduate like wth...
seriously, I miss high school life...
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i'm glad that someone else is in the same boat, but at the same time i'm not so happy that you have the same stress. hopefully we'll both be able to get through this and maybe once school starts it'll be a little less scary. (:
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