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Apr 26, 2012 00:21

So I haven't written about Eve in a long time. There are people who claim that I'm not 'over' what happened, probably in a futile attempt to make me talk about it in deeper detail. And I'm not obfuscating the point when I want to know what that word really means? I've been through all seven stages of grief. Shock, pain, and anger were easy enough. ( Read more... )

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illkeepgoing April 26 2012, 13:29:12 UTC
i had so much to say, but i'll just respond to the last paragraph, as it was infuriating.

what you're saying is... you simply weren't thinking about/didn't want to think about anna at the time i asked you about her, which is why you didn't want to talk about what happened?

you're seeming to hold onto things that i've never said before... let me reiterate: being over something does not mean never being sad about it. none of us will never be "over with" or "okay" with the awful things that happen to and around us.

but a step closer to healing, a step closer to "feeling better" (i put this in quotes because i don't know how else to word it and i don't want you to use it against me later, though you most likely will) is being able to talk about it with a trusted friend... when prompted, at least, for there is no other time in which you yourself bring anything like this up in person.

if she means so little to you, how come you couldn't even talk about her casually? jesus, henry.

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