2nd chances.

[xigil]

Ok in all essence of what it is to live in this world. Many of the common dictates in the world are things that you chose to abide by. Being spoonfed something your whole life doesn't meant it is right. That choice no matter what is yours to make. Much like the samarai that decision should be made with in the extent of a breadth. Any thing longer

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[ivory_temple]

Aye..I just had a lesson in accepting people for who they are not too long ago.
No matter your flaws, quirks, etc...it is you at whatever point in your life you are at.
Somehow I had fabricated a reality and put people I had known into specific roles in my reality. And when they would do something outside what I would "accept" as acceptable behavior I would get angry and hurt.

Then I woke up..realized that I wasn't as open minded as I thought I was.
I realized those people have their reality too. This went along with the "learning to accept someone for who they are"

I can't believe I was so blind...but then again...yeah I can.

[rishgrrl]

Well, from the looks of things, you really don't post here anymore. However, I gave you my user name...but remembered the journal is completely "friend locked". So, I've added you to my friends list and just dropping you a note here to let you know.

just haven't been on that....

[xigil]

Just really haven't been on much lately and it wasn't somewhere I honestly needed to be posting. I had forgotten about this post though. heh. I swear to you I will be ok one way or another. I maybe a sweet guy but I am pretty strong too.

Re: just haven't been on that....

[rishgrrl]

I'm sure you'll be okay one way or another sweets. I know you're strong. It isn't that I fear for you...it is that I know what emotional upheavals can be like and I wanted to offer you a neutral place to go if you would like to decompress every now and again. You have the fortitude to do this. There is no question to that. The offer for just another option to use if you'd like isn't because I think you'd necessarily that need it, but moreso if you'd like it. That's all. You know where I am if you ever want to take me up on the offer.

[rishgrrl]

Hey sweetie. Just dropping you a line to see how you're doing...
I hope well. Hate to have any of my friends in such states, you know? Mkay, well...tag, you're it.

[alchemistic_]

add me?