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[xinto_the_darkx]

i've decided that i need more friends on this thing. or else..it'll just be useless and boring and all my rants and questions will never be answered

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[starxplosion]

moving out might help you concentrate better because at least you know your own friends will be courteous enough to be quiet when you ask them to.

if your concerned about feeling like it forces you to be more committed to your girlfriend, that may not be the case. its not as if you two are living alone together.

however, if you still feel that way, i suggest you do a few things:

1. examine why you wouldn't want to be more committed...is it her, or you being scared?

2. if you guys share a room, don't share a bed. bunk it, get two small beds or one time me and my sister, when we shared a room, had a futon and a papa san chair because i liked sleeping in the chair and it was big enough to be comfortable.

hope this helps.
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[xinto_the_darkx]

i'm going to take your advice and thank you a million.

i think you're right.. my friends would be able to listen if i asked them to stop, but what worries me is .. what if i just get carried away and do that thing where they say "are you sure it's okay?" and i say "of course!" and join in the fun even.

[starxplosion]

hhaha.. yeah i join in the fun too. but you could always hide in your bedroom while doing work.

[ready_set_die]

My advice? Kick your roommate in the nose. Three cheers for gratuitous violence!

How much time is left in the semester? You could always try to stick through it if it's not a horribly long time. Or you could get some ear plugs. You'll figure something out.

[xinto_the_darkx]

there's pretty much just a month left of the semester.

:cheers for violence:

[be_invisible]

if i were you, hrmm.. i think i'd go with the home with your friends.. because you can set up a system where you can discipline one another.. and you'll see what it's like to live with jenna for the future... maybe you can even just try it for a year or for a semester.. and then go back to paying for room and board. yes? maybe
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good luck

+_+

[xinto_the_darkx]

thanks =) i think that's a good idea. maybe

::ponders::

[the_spode]

wow, thats a loaded question. I'll go over the pros and cons, maybe it'll help you decide hearing it from another person

[xinto_the_darkx]

i've kinda sorted out very similar pros and cons but thank you.

its still tough.. i dont want to offend my friends if i decide not to move in with them.. but i also dont want my brains to blow while i stay at the dorms because believe me . my roommate is an ultra bitch. she's just.. one of those girls. its the main reason i'm so tempted to just move in with my friends. but i KNOW living at the dorms and living with them.. in terms of studying.. its on the same level