can't spy on me now, can you?

this journal will be mostly friends only.
if you want to add me, awesome. but let me know.
i won't be looking at the friend's of list.
if you're going through the trouble of adding me, just leave me a comment telling me that you did.
you don't have to ask if i'll add you back, because i probably will.
just let me know that you did.
thanks.