Its a shame life has no rewind or pause button.. really it is. Alas, I do feel your pain. Shawn and I have been in somewhat of a funk ever since the newness of the baby wore off. Its not uncommon, we all feel this way at some point. You are strong for not wanting to throw in the towel right away. Maybe therapy will help. So long as you both want to make it work.. thats really the first step. If you ever need to talk about crap I'm around.
I have to say though, I never realized that geoff wasn't his baby... He was there from the get-go, thats awesome.
i would suggest marriage counseling. i will say that marriage is more about love and making a commitment to always put the other person first, much much MUCH mroe so than it is about all those fluttery feelings. of course it isn't always going to feel new and exciting like the begining of a relationship, but you aren't always at the begining. have you ever read The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman? if both of you read it it should really give you a lot of insight as to what each of you needs to feel love and to show the other person love.
It sounds like you are very unhappy, however it doesn't sound like a relationship that cannot be worked out. I would suggest some serious marital counseling. From what I have heard about marriage, it has its rough parts and it has its times that are mundane.(Just like any other relationship.)However, if you are unhappy then you suys need to address the issues before they cannot not be fixed anymore.
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I have to say though, I never realized that geoff wasn't his baby... He was there from the get-go, thats awesome.
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I agree it is much more about commitment than butterflies - but that's no doubt hard sometimes.
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From what I have heard about marriage, it has its rough parts and it has its times that are mundane.(Just like any other relationship.)However, if you are unhappy then you suys need to address the issues before they cannot not be fixed anymore.
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