HMM maybe try thinking of different ways you can just slip into the conversation topic, even just a "aaaa sorry thank you for doing this...sorry if i'm being annoying" and see how they react? or just play thru diff scenarios in your head...because it'll be much easier if you just confront people about it... but yea it's tricky to not make it awkward..but it sucks not knowing..you just have to find a balance? and half the time the people you're talking to aren't half as worried about it as you are. so sometimes you just gotta go for it.
i also understand the "used to having someone kind of reassure me"...i used to make my sister just gimme that final activation energy for pretty much all my decisions....and it was really awkward when that stopped happening because making decisions was like "I SHOULD ASK MY SISTER but she'll probably just tell me to do it anyway BUT SHOULD I DO IT" and it's hard to know when......but i guess it's a growth process i'm still bad at it but nothing says you ever have to be 100% independent, anyway
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but yea it's tricky to not make it awkward..but it sucks not knowing..you just have to find a balance? and half the time the people you're talking to aren't half as worried about it as you are. so sometimes you just gotta go for it.
i also understand the "used to having someone kind of reassure me"...i used to make my sister just gimme that final activation energy for pretty much all my decisions....and it was really awkward when that stopped happening because making decisions was like "I SHOULD ASK MY SISTER but she'll probably just tell me to do it anyway BUT SHOULD I DO IT" and it's hard to know when......but i guess it's a growth process
i'm still bad at it but nothing says you ever have to be 100% independent, anyway
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