Comments | xmeout: If Andrew digs a bone, we all dig a bone, it will be Archeology...!!!

xmeout

If Andrew digs a bone, we all dig a bone, it will be Archeology...!!!

Aug 12, 2004 17:50

Work was agony in the pitfalls of labor today for me. I loaded 7 Gaylord's of fittings that weighed a total of 5,560 lbs. Then they all had to be shrink-wrapped and strapped down to the pallets. I wish either of my bands can be in the right place at the right time to get signed and maybe pay just enough to quit our regular jobs...Hell, I would even ( Read more... )

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tiger66466 August 12 2004, 22:10:57 UTC

your mind is made up about marriage because you don't think you'll find someone you want to marry or because you just don't want to be married ever?

xmeout August 13 2004, 01:01:57 UTC

A little of both. Or maybe I just do not want to believe it could ever happen to me. I have asked one time many moons ago and was turned down as I am glad I was cause it would not have worked, looking back on it that is.

tiger66466 August 13 2004, 02:12:45 UTC

i often think i won't ever get married and it's not a i'm anti-marriage thing but rather i don't think i'll ever find someone i'd want to be married to.

i don't ever want kids so being married isn't as important to me - i would be fine being in a committed, lasting relationship without it being a marriage on paper. but i'm not sure even that will happen for me. i have always had and continue to have absolutely no luck in finding someone. so i won't hold my breath on that whole thing.

leopard_print August 12 2004, 22:36:11 UTC

What made up your mind?

xmeout August 13 2004, 01:08:08 UTC

Mainly seeing friends go through some pretty tough stuff, with kids involved no less, and never even being truthful about anything amongnest themselves. I know I can not judge myself based on others but the reality is that most people never really get along after a long period of time. Maybe its a "fad" or something, if it is a "fad" it's a sad one.

leopard_print August 13 2004, 02:56:28 UTC

I agree that it's sad. After seeing my sister's divorce this year after 10 years of marriage.. that was just almost more than I could stand.

I don't ever want to get married unless I'm just 100% sure that it'll never end that way. And I'm just not sure what it would take to convince me of that.

That's not to say I don't want a relationship with anyone. I could see myself living with someone or being close with someone in the long term. I just don't know about marriage though.