First.

[xmoosex]

September 30th, 2010:

September 8th, 2010. It was on this day, little did I know, that my life was about to change forever.
Long story short, alcohol, Atlantic City, and an apparently broken condom.
Here I am 3 weeks later, pregnant. The guy didn't tell me til a few days later that the condom broke. I guess it didn't seem like a big deal to him

Comments

[qualityoflife]

Are you shitting me? It takes two to tango. So what if he's engaged!!? Do whatever YOU ultimately want. He didn't think to mention that ten condom broke? He should try telling that to the child support judge this time next year. You have rights, know them..

[livinluvinlife]

Hi hunny, I commented over in the other community.

I just want to say that this decision is not an easy one, and I know that! I am pro choice, but when it came down to me, I chose to keep my baby. To me, it was never an option. I had no job, my mom was losing her house, we had nothing. But this was my baby, I already felt in love with it (her.) She is now almost 5. She is my motivation in my life. Everything I do, I do it for her. If the main reason you are contimplating abortion because of Tech, I would NOT have the abortion. It may seem impossible, but its 5 months out of a hopefully long and healthy life. There is skpye, whomever is with the baby can video conference. And when it's over you have the rest of your lives together.

You can do it.

Keep your head up and look at the big picture

[fuchsiascreams]

I felt bad for you at first until you wrote about how two weeks later you were sick, and anyone who has done any type of research about pregnancy knows that it's literally not possible to start getting symptoms until at LEAST weeks 5 or 6. So, I mean.. now I'm just completely convinced you're full of shit. Next time do some research.

[xmoosex]

Sweetheart, Last week was week 5, and this week is week 6. And I'm having twins. Its faily common to get sick within your first month with twins. Do your research.

[xmoosex]

This actually pissed me off more than you realized. Don't come onto someones page, where they are looking for advice and support and try to insult them. Do some damn research before you try to accuse others, and troll. Don't come on my page anymore.

[bafleyanne]

Wow, it really makes me mad that someone would say this to you when you are obviously already upset about the pregnancy. *hugs*

And to the commenter: my VERY FIRST pregnancy symptom this time around was being sick, and I was barely 4 weeks at that point. So that whole "literally not possible" thing? Not so much.

[pleasesupriseme]

I don't understand why going to Tech means you'll have to leave your baby for 5 months. Um, it's October that you wrote this, right? You would still be pregnant. What's the problem then?

[xmoosex]

Can't go to tech pregnant.

[pleasesupriseme]

Well I understand that, it was your saying "it was the fact that I have to go away to tech school for 5 months, and will I seriously be able to leave a baby, MY baby for 5 months?" that threw me. It made it sound like you'd have to leave your kid to go, but... that obviously wouldn't be able to happen.

Shit of a situation, really. I hope things work out for you.

[xmoosex]

I'll have to go to tech 6 months after I give birth, and the babies will be staying home with my parents.

[luxury_cage]

some of this doesn't add up. just sayin.