My vindication as follows:kaorii_niihtSeptember 21 2005, 09:51:59 UTC
She doesn't feel love towards me anymore, I don't make her happy like I used to, and thats its not my fault, and we should be friends.
1. Everytime I brought up an issue with the relationship you would acknowledge it then ignore my point or say I was wrong.
2. I began to second guess myself because of that and I wasn't happy with who I had become.
3. All you ever did was beg me not to string you around, and if I felt that I didn't love you or couldn't give you the emotional support you needed then I shouldn't lie or try to fake it for you.
4. Quit saying, "I stayed by her when she was depressed-" because you know what if it was that freaking hard then you shouldn't have done it at all. I'm sorry that I don't love you anymore. I'm sorry I don't care the way that I used to, but there's nothing I can do to change that so I don't really feel that it's FAIR for me to stay with you just because you did so earlier in the relationship. Again, if you had such a problem with it so many months before you should have said something to me. I
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My vindication as follows: Pt 2kaorii_niihtSeptember 21 2005, 09:52:18 UTC
-it seemed like I was always just a toy to her. That pisses me off. You know it's not true. I know you're upset and aren't thinking straight but that's absolute bullshit. You also know that if you ever felt that way all you had to do was mention it to me and I would try to clear things up or I would try to 'CHANGE' myself to your pleasing.
I believe that we both did things in the relationship that we are not proud of and slightly scorned by but I did care about you and I still do but when I read this I just want to scream. I was hoping you would be more mature about it. I was hoping you noticed the same things I did and would realize that this isn't fixable. If I had stuck around, I think all I would have done was brought you down. I get bitchy, I get anti-social and you don't need a girlfriend who doesn't love you hanging around when you're depressed. Plain and simple.
-if she is happy, if she has the attention, if she is loved, if she has someone to her expectations.We both did that in the relationship as well so don't try to play
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1. I too am at a loss for money. It seems as soon as I get paid, I end up spending it all on stuff like gas, and phone bill, and car payment and shit like that. Money tends to come and go. It's simply a fact of life
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1. Everytime I brought up an issue with the relationship you would acknowledge it then ignore my point or say I was wrong.
2. I began to second guess myself because of that and I wasn't happy with who I had become.
3. All you ever did was beg me not to string you around, and if I felt that I didn't love you or couldn't give you the emotional support you needed then I shouldn't lie or try to fake it for you.
4. Quit saying, "I stayed by her when she was depressed-" because you know what if it was that freaking hard then you shouldn't have done it at all. I'm sorry that I don't love you anymore. I'm sorry I don't care the way that I used to, but there's nothing I can do to change that so I don't really feel that it's FAIR for me to stay with you just because you did so earlier in the relationship. Again, if you had such a problem with it so many months before you should have said something to me. I ( ... )
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That pisses me off. You know it's not true. I know you're upset and aren't thinking straight but that's absolute bullshit. You also know that if you ever felt that way all you had to do was mention it to me and I would try to clear things up or I would try to 'CHANGE' myself to your pleasing.
I believe that we both did things in the relationship that we are not proud of and slightly scorned by but I did care about you and I still do but when I read this I just want to scream. I was hoping you would be more mature about it. I was hoping you noticed the same things I did and would realize that this isn't fixable. If I had stuck around, I think all I would have done was brought you down. I get bitchy, I get anti-social and you don't need a girlfriend who doesn't love you hanging around when you're depressed. Plain and simple.
-if she is happy, if she has the attention, if she is loved, if she has someone to her expectations.We both did that in the relationship as well so don't try to play ( ... )
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Talk. To. Her.
That's all I have to say about that.
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