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so yeah; know one has given me advice lately... and i need it. put yourself in my position

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[_undiscoveredx]

you outta just dont takl to your father anymore like me! lol even though i know you cant last with that b ut it works for me...
hope everything gets better im always here for ya if you need to talk
xoxo bffe Cyndi

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haha cyndi you have been through this with me like 10 times before dealing with my father, and you know how mean he can get-- but i keep like wanting to be close with him again. its so hard, when i was little i used to be so close to him.. and now well, yeah.

[anonymous]

HEY, I think you need to sit your dad down and have a long conversation with him. Ask him why he puts you down and tell him how that makes ou feel. And tell him that you dont want your relationship with him to be the way it is. I know your relationship with your dad isnt that strong but he is your father and he owes it to you to treat you like his daughter. And i hope you feel better soon. Your always sick. You should get that looked at. :)

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haha, i was about to call you bradley, but to me... that sounds sexual. haha. so b-rad... haha, i try to talk to my dad about things and he totally flips out, and its so hard. but yeah, i know that i am always sick.. haha my mom works for my doctor so shes always bringing everything homeee. GOSH. haha

[anonymous]

Bradley is a pretty sexy name. Just like me. talking to your dad may not work but not talking to him will only make it worse. If you sit him down face to face and talk to him and tell him how you really feel it might do more than you think.

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yeah, i guess. but i never get to see him.. like every 3 months, and when i do.. and i do go to talk to him, he will jump down my throat or just ignore me completely. he hates when people point out his faults.. because he thinks he is perfect. i dont know... its complicated and im stuck.
p.s. oh yeah, bradley is a sexual name hahaha

[beautyintheblue]

hey alyssa, this is a hard one but i think you should talk to your dad. pushing him away probably wont do much for either of you and talking to him couldnt hurt right? tell him exactly how you feel and damand answers to your questions, becuase you DO NOT deserve to be put down by anyone, especially your dad. this was you can both vent your emotions and maybe get closer, maybe somethings bothering your dad too, maybe not i dunno but thats why you should talk to him! hope things get better...love ya <3

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rachel, thanks for the advice.. i will take that into consideration.. because thats REALLY good advice dollface. i hope you have a good day :]

[physiques]

talk to him, girl. tell him how you really feel, instead of questioning things, and keeping it inside.

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i know, but i mean... its easier said then done. i mean when i talk to my dad-- he wigs out on me, or he will just ignore me.. or play the guilt trip on me. and i mean i have wrote him letters before, and i have called him and i have talked to it on the way home from his house... and he blows it off. and he doesnt even realize it! and it pisses me off so damn bad.

[arcade__]

talk to him, or try to. but when he says brutal things back, bite you're tongue and DON'T chop back. because really when you bite back, they'll only come back harder, and it's an on going battle. but if you stay calm and let them tear you apart, sure it might hurt, but it will hurt them more knowing later that you were nice and that you did nothing to harm them. then i'd lay off for awhile and let him come around..

of course he'll come around he's your dad.

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thats really good advice, the best yet actually! thanks elissa!

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