I disagree with your title, being that Paige and James were best friends,dated, and grew up together and whether your best friends with both, or in my case knew James but wanst close with him its still the lose of two kids who should still be here right now. I agree that there were a few people there that maybe didnt really know them, but it still hurts and its a lot easier to grieve when your around other people going threw the same thing, then sitting alone in your room thinking about it and not having anyone to be there, or to understand. Also take into consideration people who were at James, may have only known James, that is why they were at him house. Either way its sad, and it hurts but I just wanted to say something because I know when Frankie died I stood around and was like "I've never seen that person they didnt know him" but you know what, who am I to say that they were friends years ago, and that Frankie hadnt played a part in thier life. If someones grieving let them, it shouldnt effect you.
i believe you need to look againxsnot187October 16 2004, 16:14:43 UTC
look people die its a fact of life okay. i'm sure everyone in the world has to realize this. the fact of being upset would be over the actual person. if you wanna cry about teenagers dying why dont you look around the world and cry everyday for the hundreds of kids in Iraq our own government kills. so the fact of "oh someone at such a young age dying is horrible" blah blah blah save me your shit. the only thing dealing with is never seeing the person again. and im sorry but i hung out with Richie & James all the time. Richie would have done anything for me, just like i would for Richie. there was a time in my life when i didnt go to school and all i did was hang out with them and smoke everyday. it doesnt matter if you knew Richie or not.. i know people that where really close with him & he jacked them. so like i said i really doubt Richie would be standing outside your house greiving your death. there is no way you can tell me he would be. i know James and Paige wight have had a more "personal" past or whatever.. but the thing is
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yeah im with carissa on that one. ive known james for quite a few years, we never got along, and thats even worse because the last thing i ever said to him was something mean i'm sure, everyone is paying there respects to him which i think is respectful, rather then disrespectful.. i mean if people were going like oh james bff and they hardly knew him then thats a diffrent story, but yeah. i love you bradley beltowski, i hope your okay and if you need anything then i have a shoulder for you. <3
as you can see from what i said above, im tired of people all of a sudden caring about them now or again out of no where for attention and sympathy. there are the people that are used to seeing them all the time and calling them up to chill all the time and then there are people that are part of this morning trend of local kids that their friends know dying. people just need to be mature and respectful to the people who are really taking this lose hard as hell and not as in "oh i knew him from school but we never hung out often" or "oh my friend knows them but still its hard" i mean come on, some people need to grow up and stop using my friends death as something to talk about for the next couple of weeks.
well im just saying for me, i didn't act like i cared about the kid, i mean i feel bad that i said some mean things to him and now its things i can't take back, like that could be just me, and i coudl jsut be like carissa and care to much about things that arent my buisness, but whatever this is a pointless argument. i said it before, and ill say it now,, i'm sorry for your loss and everyone who was close iwth him.
him and nigga james passed away in a car crash... i'll tell you more about it later. andrew and i left to get outta this town as you can see there is some un-needed drama.
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i love you bradley beltowski, i hope your okay and if you need anything then i have a shoulder for you. <3
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rock;
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<3
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i'll tell you more about it later.
andrew and i left to get outta this town
as you can see there is some un-needed drama.
rock;
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-WTF?
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