For the record, no judgment from me, these are just answer applicable to me and my own expectations of myself and those who choose to get involved with me
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to be honest, what I'm finding right now is it all depends on the comfort level of you and the person you're casually dating. I mean, if I'm sleeping with someone, regardless of how casual the relationship is, I think it's only fair for them to discuss with me if they are considering sleeping with someone else. As much for my physical protection as my emotional. So in answer to your questions, I think it varies between people.
hmm. i have always said a person shouldn't sleep with more than one person at a time. but at the same time, when things are just that, it's hard to make rules. it's complicating the complication-free, ya know? i'd like to believe in monogamy - in some way, but it's tough to say "don't screw around with anyone else!!! because i don't want a contract disease - or get jealous." (because let's face it, that's the real reason.)
your comment made me think of this quote from 'the opposite of sex' which i've always agreed with completely as well:
"Say the point of sex isn't recreation or procreation or any of that stuff. Say it's concentration. Say it's supposed to focus your attention on the person you're sleeping with, like biological highlighter. Otherwise, there's just too many people in the world."
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"Say the point of sex isn't recreation or procreation or any of that stuff. Say it's concentration. Say it's supposed to focus your attention on the person you're sleeping with, like biological highlighter. Otherwise, there's just too many people in the world."
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If you made a commitment to each other (either dating or marriage) and you hook up with someone else, it's cheating.
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