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Mar 11, 2011 22:03

Is a 28 year old having sex with a 16 year a pedophile?

I would think so.

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bonegrind March 12 2011, 08:35:56 UTC
no, because pedophiles are attracted to prepubescent children.
15-19 is ephebophilia. (14 to 19 too, it kind of varies).

slightly off topic, i recently found out its legal for a 13 year old to have sex with a 17 year old in my state. i find that kind of disturbing. i realize that girls at least seem to be.. maturing, a lot faster(ive seen a few 12 year olds and i thought they were 16 or something. and not just because how they dressed) but its just... weird.

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xtinexcore March 12 2011, 15:44:13 UTC
That's actually really interesting. I didn't realize what the different appeals were called.

I think it's disturbing that it's legal for a 13 year old to have sex. Yes their bodies may be maturing but in this day and age our minds don't mature in most cases until after college.

To me I still see 16 year olds as babies... They just don't have the life experience yet. But I am also just ranting about my ex. I think I also speak as a parent now because if I knew my 16 year old was seeing a 28 year old I would be through the roof and have his testicles cut off. Sorry, end rant... Lol.

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bonegrind March 12 2011, 19:39:50 UTC
i have to say i think ephebophiles are better than pedophiles to a certain extent because they at least are interested in something.. developed? developing..? and someone that *usually* has the ability to make their own decisions, and even if they're bad ones, still can understand ways to cope with it. i don't think children are stupid, and it amazes me how smart 7 year olds can be but i still count them as helpless little creatures and no matter how smart they. i have no idea how to explain things i hope you get what i mean sort at least. im not trying to defend these people just i think theres a difference ( ... )

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xtinexcore March 15 2011, 14:35:15 UTC
Yeah when I hear of somebody raping a 7 year old I think that's just way out of line. It's even worst when you hear about somebody doing it to a three year old.

I suppose at least with a 16 year old they made the choice as well as he did. Sex is generally a two way street.

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pointe_toes March 13 2011, 05:51:15 UTC
i think whatever opinion i hold is hypocritical.

however: i think james is a 16 year old, mentally. of course he doesn't see anything wrong with it.

and.

done. :)

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