Eh para rin naman yan sa ikabubuti mo.

[xx164xx]

I guess the reason why my friends gets annoyed with me whenever I give them advices is because I've always been brutally honest.
I tell them not the things that they want to hear, but all those that they don't.

And as friends, I think we have that burden of always telling the truth no matter how painful they are.

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[seasite]

You're right. You know, I witnessed a similar situation. Hopefully when your friend gains perspective she'll realize your honesty and concern. In the mean time, I guess it's good to just be there and remind her of your good intentions.

[xx164xx]

I don't really have a problem with my friend, because most of the time she understands my take on things (even if it takes her a really loooonggg time to get what I'm saying).

What upsets me is that those who surround us (aka mutual "friends") twists the entire story to make other people see me more as a villain rather than the brutally honest and over-protective friend.

[xx164xx]

Everyone needs someone like Fool.

Or someone na parang yung bata sa Emperor's New Clothes na nagsabi sa hari na wala naman talaga siyang suot na damit. Mas nakakagawa ka ng mabuti kapag nagsasabi ka ng totoo eh, kaysa naman pa-good shot ka ng pa-good shot mas lalong nagmumukhang tanga yung kaibigan mo.