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[xxi_am_batmanxx]

I'm so lost. I feel like I don't know how to live. i feel like i won't ever be satisfied with any answer anyone gives me because there's always another side that seems just as convincing.

in litmag today, we read a quote that said, 'if you dont stand for something, you'll fall for anything'.

but what if you cant decide what to stand for? i feel like

Comments

[puffmeister]

you are on the right path, it is simply accepting that it isnt bad to not know things, or to even be confused. To me seeing more sides means you are more intellegent and more understanding. Someday you will develop stronger opinions. It takes a life time. Let it be. Dont force it. Thats the key to life and enlightenment. Let life takes its path. Be nothing. Let life be everything. Don't force yourself to be anything, accept what you are and take steps from there. Right now you are confused, right now you don't know answers. Thats important to realize, now instead of jumping ahead and having an opinion, take the next step from on the road from confusion to wisdom: think about stuff.

Dont know if any of that made sense. I loved our conversation tonight and we definitely need to have more. I love you a lot. Feel better physically and mentally. Goodnight person who is already asleep.

[sarahw18]

hopefully we will discuss this in florida. to start off though, i think you should take a deep breath and not be alarmed. it takes a lot of effort for ANYONE to lock themselves into a bias or position or stance on anything- well- maybe i shouldn't speak for everyone, but it does for me, so you're not alone.
follow the things that make you happy and give you that sense of wonder and wanting to keep doing them forever--and there's no reason you should know what those things are right now. follow them as your beliefs and your worldview and also as your career and your hobbies. I think you will find that even though your ability to empathize and understand will again find its place among your favorite traits.