I don't know. Personally, if a guy is too nice to me I get suspicious. If someone calls me beautiful, he's a player. But then again I suffer from bad paranoia.
And I've been there. I've dated sooooooooo many assholes and sometimes I can't see the nice guy standing next to me, but sometimes the nice guy doesn't come forward and tell me how he feels. The nice guy should do that, but be prepared for the girl not to have feelings for him. If he's fallen into a "Brother" catagory, it's over. There's nothing that can be done about that. It's just weird sleeping/hooking up with him.
But the nice guy should always be honest about his intentions. He shouldn't be a listener in the HOPES that a girl will give him a chance. He should go for the chance, and if he fails he has lost nothing. But if he wins, he's won everything.
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And I've been there. I've dated sooooooooo many assholes and sometimes I can't see the nice guy standing next to me, but sometimes the nice guy doesn't come forward and tell me how he feels. The nice guy should do that, but be prepared for the girl not to have feelings for him. If he's fallen into a "Brother" catagory, it's over. There's nothing that can be done about that. It's just weird sleeping/hooking up with him.
But the nice guy should always be honest about his intentions. He shouldn't be a listener in the HOPES that a girl will give him a chance. He should go for the chance, and if he fails he has lost nothing. But if he wins, he's won everything.
Just my female point of view rambling.
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