I am currently procratinating on heading to the office today to get some work done. I know. It's going to bite me in the ass and mean that I will just have to be at work at 7am tomorrow and stay late
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..yea. it's silly to have to force someone to be committed to you, regardless of gender. it's either there or it isn't. it's unfortunate that people are so scared of change, so scared of letting go, that they'd put up with bullshit. and i'm sorry, La, that you had to go through that.
if after 2 years, you don't feel secure with that person.. and security is what you're looking for.. then that person is CLEARLY not the one for you. it's true: you move on. it'll hurt you more in the long run to hold on and keep nagging.
the biggest problem too, i find, is that people just want to love and be loved. and when they find someone they're blindly infatuated with, they cling on and try to mold that person into their ideal. and when it doesn't work, they get angry.. as if it was that person's fault in the first place.
cripes. i could go on. but anyway. have fun with the long hours tomorrow, it was good to know you're still chugging away out there =)
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if after 2 years, you don't feel secure with that person.. and security is what you're looking for.. then that person is CLEARLY not the one for you. it's true: you move on. it'll hurt you more in the long run to hold on and keep nagging.
the biggest problem too, i find, is that people just want to love and be loved. and when they find someone they're blindly infatuated with, they cling on and try to mold that person into their ideal. and when it doesn't work, they get angry.. as if it was that person's fault in the first place.
cripes. i could go on. but anyway. have fun with the long hours tomorrow, it was good to know you're still chugging away out there =)
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