whoa...my problems are insignificant

[xxthewearysdxx]

my heart goes out to my good friend and drummer Dustin Showers...his mom was murdered today by her ex boyfriend who then killed himself...i can't imagine what he's going through....i can only hope that she is in a better place....i feel terrible for him....i just don't know what to say..i mean nothing i say is gonna make what happened any better

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[shampoosuicide]

omg, that's horrible! i'm soo sorry for your friend. i have had some bad shit happen to me, but to have someone i love die like this is just terrible. i really truly hope your friend gets through this.
p.s. i have myspace, i'm Danielle!!11!! if you'd like another friend.

[xxthewearysdxx]

i don't know if you got my message...but yeah it turns out i really did know your last name....but when i typed ballard in the last name part....it said "incorrect"...so i assumed that i was wrong and didn't really know your last name ;)

[pale_october]

That's soo terrible. I'm really sorry.

[xxthewearysdxx]

it's ok...thanks though <3

[x_lost_in_you]

man o man. that is terrible. i hope everything works out ok. but i'd say just be there for him. even if you guys just sit and don't do/say anything. just let him know that he has a friend that will be there by his side whenever he needs it. but i'm sure you got it all figured out already. <333

[xxthewearysdxx]

thanks!....i'll totally be there for him ♥

"Of all the earthly music, that which reaches farthest into heaven is the beating of a truly loving"

[twistedxmind120]

::hugs you:: ::hugs your friend::

its fucking amazing what stupid things people can do.. without thinking of what it will do to impact the lives around them..
just think.. karma karma karma.. heh..

i wish i knew him because i know (to a degree) what hes going through. i know my lifes been a wreck for the last 2, almost 3 years ever since my 18 yr old brother committed suicide. it destroyed my family for a period of time and just wow.. shocked family and friends. im soo so sorry about his mom.. id seriously go nuts.. i love my mom sooo much and id just...wow.. tell him about everyones sympathy because to loose your mom is just.. crazy..

<3

Re: "Of all the earthly music, that which reaches farthest into heaven is the beating of a truly lov

[xxthewearysdxx]

i'm so sorry about your brother....i cant imagine....nothing is worth killing yourself or other people (except maybe freedom)....it's just not worth it.....i'm just so sorry you had to go through that ♥ ♥ ♥

Re: "Of all the earthly music, that which reaches farthest into heaven is the beating of a truly lov

[twistedxmind120]

thanks babe. ♥

give all the sympathy and love in the world to your friend dustin though. im sure he needs it =(

[anonymous]

dont pity him. dont be at a loss for words.

be there for him. he needs your comforting words and support.

[anonymous]

ps. you are listening to a good song&band

[xxthewearysdxx]

yes!!! they totally are...i saw em a few weeks ago with atreyu :)

[anonymous]

nice! i saw them in november with alkaline trio (!!!) & reggie and the full effect (eh)