I totally hear you. I was never a server, but I did work at a restaraunt as a hostess and some of my best friend's were servers. Sometimes I can't believe how RUDE people are! Some servers are trying to make a living here, and most of the time it's not even the server's fault when there is a mistake.. and if it is, they are almost always apologetic. People nowadays are just so ungrateful, I can't believe they go in public sometimes :)