Advice...

[yankeetro_75]

to go or not to go? I have been invited (but we have to pay ourselves) to go onto a cruise, Carnival Cruise, end of May. John M.'s last week of school to be precise. Hubby offered to take leave, and he would stay home with the kids, by himself and them. I want to go, but I want family to go too, since John M. can't, hubby would stay back, but I

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[kitticat]

Are you kidding!!! I would take that chance in a heart beat! To have time for myself with no family or husband would be wonderful lol. I love my family but sometimes you just want to get away. I say go for it! You will feel so much better when you get back. I think you need this! Your kids will survive with out your for a time. I also think it would be good for John!

[sionainn]

I'm with Susan and Lisa... you have been a great mother and wife... and you need to take time for yourself.

Go and have fun and come back to your family renewed and refreshed. If you don't recharge YOUR batteries every once in awhile you will have nothing left to give.

[babybegood]

Nikki I also agree with every one else, I say go for it. I know it will be hard to leave your babies and your husband. But you have been through a lot in life and you need a break. Do something for your self and relax and have fun. I think it will do you and John good in the end also. Absence makes the heart grow stronger. And you need your rest you have been to tired and sick lately. It is your choice to go or not to go, but I feel going would be the right thing to do. I have kids and I know having a break would be wonderful. How long will you be gone and would you be able to talk to them?

[lizzbeth97]

GO!
and go alone!
The kids will get over it.
Enjoy!