Maybe I'm too much of a guy, but I vote for continuing to pursue it. She is confused, and not sure what she is feeling so be there for her. It sounds like her mom isn't entirely supportive of her, and its probably good for her to have someone who appreciates her for being her.
I mean unless you are of the feeling that you HAVE to be in a relationship soon, slow play this. Don't give it an official name for a while, just continue to enjoy each others company, and after a sufficient period of time, hopefully both of you come to the conclusion that it is either something or not. And even if it's not, it doesn't mean you still can't enjoy it anyway.
Honestly, at this point I have no choice but to continue to pursue it (unless she says stop of course) because right now I can't even browse profiles on okcupid or plentyoffish while thinking 'ooh I want to do this with Sarah' or 'well she's not Sarah'.
It's just that I wish I was more experienced and it's driving me nuts not being experienced at all but I don't want to do stuff with another girl unless I'm clear that we're not a 'thing' I mean but if we are or end up being a thing, I want to at least be good, but I have nothing to base it off of.
Oh... yeah I totally get that whole inexperienced thing. I have that same worry about me and my GF. However one thing to consider, it sounds like Sarah is likely just as inexperienced, so it's not like she will be comparing you to someone else. That comparison is what worries me a little bit in my relationship.
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I mean unless you are of the feeling that you HAVE to be in a relationship soon, slow play this. Don't give it an official name for a while, just continue to enjoy each others company, and after a sufficient period of time, hopefully both of you come to the conclusion that it is either something or not. And even if it's not, it doesn't mean you still can't enjoy it anyway.
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It's just that I wish I was more experienced and it's driving me nuts not being experienced at all but I don't want to do stuff with another girl unless I'm clear that we're not a 'thing' I mean but if we are or end up being a thing, I want to at least be good, but I have nothing to base it off of.
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