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[posted this mostly for myself]
I've finally kinda figured something out [yes, that makes sense] >
Dating sucks. If you also believe dating is stupid, read no further -- I probably got nuthin new for ya.
For those who wish to continue reading, here goes.
Once a couple says "we're going out now" everything changes. Expectations, schedules, everything.
If only there was a way around this. Or the two people could be smart enough and just hang out for a while with other people in a group setting and hang out that way. But that way is difficult and you don't get the "I'm with that one" kind of feeling--you're always in the dark as to whether the person likes you or not, as opposed to going out and just knowing that.
Or maybe I'm making up reasons to be okay in my head when someone "doesn't want to date right now."
Gah. I don't know. *whimper*
Blah. That's it. Pointless typing again. Posted this mostly for myself--to get it out of my head and into semi-understandable words. I'm not expecting any kind of comment on it, and I don't know when to turn off comments..
I've finally kinda figured something out [yes, that makes sense] >
Dating sucks. If you also believe dating is stupid, read no further -- I probably got nuthin new for ya.
For those who wish to continue reading, here goes.
Once a couple says "we're going out now" everything changes. Expectations, schedules, everything.
If only there was a way around this. Or the two people could be smart enough and just hang out for a while with other people in a group setting and hang out that way. But that way is difficult and you don't get the "I'm with that one" kind of feeling--you're always in the dark as to whether the person likes you or not, as opposed to going out and just knowing that.
Or maybe I'm making up reasons to be okay in my head when someone "doesn't want to date right now."
Gah. I don't know. *whimper*
Blah. That's it. Pointless typing again. Posted this mostly for myself--to get it out of my head and into semi-understandable words. I'm not expecting any kind of comment on it, and I don't know when to turn off comments..