Comments | yennafrost: My Passive-Aggressive Life.

yennafrost

My Passive-Aggressive Life.

Jul 01, 2012 10:56

Passive Aggressive behavior is a form of covert abuse. When someone hits you or yells at you, you know that you've been abused. It is obvious and easily identified. Covert abuse is subtle and veiled or disguised by actions that appear to be normal, at times loving and caring. The passive aggressive person is a master at covert abuse ( Read more... )

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breaking_skies July 1 2012, 21:01:54 UTC

I've been worried about you, obviously.

I'm in my own selfish-depressive cycle.

Would it help YOU to get counselling because it doesn't sound like you have any way to fix this?

Call the United Way (211) for a list of sliding scale places if you want. I wish you could go to my place, it's amazing.

breaking_skies July 1 2012, 21:02:32 UTC

That said, everything you mention reminds me of Avivah and of myself a lot of times

breaking_skies July 1 2012, 21:03:31 UTC

When I say go to counselling, it seems like you don't have a partner, you have another child to take care of...which isn't fair.

bliggle July 3 2012, 21:13:58 UTC

OH MY GOSH.

Damn.

I'm in a relationship with some exactly like this too.

yennafrost July 3 2012, 21:51:29 UTC

Is he depressed? I think a lot of John's passive aggression comes from the way depression has warped his views. Because he has to spend 90% of his waking hours just trying to cancel out the depression enough to function, his idea of how things are and how they should be is completely off from every other person's on the planet.