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[your_number1]

So everything is cleared up now. We've been having a hard time lately. He's been really out of character. I've been super hella needy and a big pain in the ass.

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[teezmepeaz]

i am happy you guys have worked everything out. I hope that in the end you guys will be back to your happy stage...

[your_number1]

Thank you ♥

[diana_molloy]

I have my own emotional issues, and so does my boyfriend. There are times when it feel like hey here I am tsaking into account all your baggage and trying to cut you some slack if things go wrongbut the minute I step out of line I'm the bad guy. I think we're getting better but it does often feel like 2 steps forward and 5 backwards.

And what is it with guys being able to do the cold and unfeeling thing when someone is hurt? Now if it is all RAWR SCREAM SCREAM I can kinda understand but if everyone is calm, albeit upset, I just want to hug the other person when they show me they're hurting. J? Not always so. Sometimes yes but yeah not always and my girlfriends say the same about their guys.

I'm glad you got to talk and are trying again. It's hard to keep trying when it all seems shit and all you have left is love. Trying to work out of love really is enough to keep you going while you fix the issues one at a time.

[your_number1]

That sounds just like me. We get better for awhile, and then it gets worse. Over and over. It's a cycle.

I think guys make themselves "emotionally unavailable because they don't want to look "weak". I can't stand to see him hurting. I can be mad as hell at him but if he's crying or having a bad day, I can't help but comfort him. I just don't get it.

Thank you. I hope things continue to improve with your boyfriend, too. ♥

[konstellation]

I'm kind of going through similar things in my relationship, except the borderline thing. I'm glad your parents were so understanding! The situation with Michael must be so difficult, I hope everything works for the best! Oh and my bf doesn't understand why I blog either, I guess sharing personal things with strangers is beyond him but it helps me a lot.

[your_number1]

Relationships can be so shitty sometimes. :( My
parents really surprised me. That's for sure.

Thank you so much. ♥ I hope things get better between you and Brad, too. *hugs*

I blog because I don't really have any friends IRL, and it helps getting everything out in the open and it's different from telling your family because unlike them, your LJ friends are unbiased and don't have any preconceived ideas about you.

[kkrizzle1116]

It's great that your parents are there for you & I'm sorry to hear about the whole thing. What's meant to be will find a way in the end & I hope things will work out in time for you & Michael.

[your_number1]

You're absolutely right. I just have to keep that in mind when things are going shittily. lol

Thank you Kelly ♥

[exhibiter]

You both have a lot of work to do, and you both need a lot of support. It's going to be double hard for you guys. If he can find genuine sympathy or empathy for you, then you might make it. I hope you get the resolution you desire, and the happiness you deserve. *hugs*

[your_number1]

We do have a ton of work to do. I just hope we'll be able to get through it and keep our eyes on the prize. Thank you so much. You're a sweetheart. ♥