Wondering

Oct 08, 2008 12:41

Is it an insult to call a male pretty?

Edit later on: Neji! I honestly think you are pretty! I'm not insincere about it! It's not an insult!
Someone suggested you could change your look when it bothers you...

just wondering, nejii

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samusxaran October 8 2008, 16:20:54 UTC
Although there are males that are deemable as pretty - it may be that the said male would find it degrading to fall under a female trait and may take it as an insult - which would give off an insecurity to the person that you are wishing to compliment.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 17:40:51 UTC
But why do they think that a female trait is an insult?

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samusxaran October 8 2008, 18:15:40 UTC
It's a good question, yet it probably has to do with fact that men detest being affiliated with feminism.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 18:25:46 UTC
But females aren't something bad!

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jealousvampire October 8 2008, 20:41:08 UTC
... well, handsome is normally meant for boys but ...
With some pretty happens to fit better.

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youthfullgreen October 9 2008, 04:52:18 UTC
So you don't think it's an insult, Rosalie-san?

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jealousvampire October 9 2008, 18:54:50 UTC
No, I don't really think so.

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youthfullgreen October 9 2008, 19:08:41 UTC
That's good... but perhaps he hates me now...

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[Voice] heavenly_earth October 9 2008, 00:07:23 UTC
[Neji groans]

Lee....you could've just asked me instead of the entire community.... But thank you. I realize you wouldn't says something you didn't mean, but it's odd to accept such an awkward compliment.
I could try cutting my hair

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Re: [Voice] youthfullgreen October 9 2008, 04:44:20 UTC
D-does it trouble you?
You're welcome. Do you feel less manly when I call you that way?

I-I admit I prefer the way you look now, though...

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Re: [Voice] heavenly_earth October 9 2008, 04:57:20 UTC
Well I admit, I would prefer you to ask me instead of everyone...
I admit I'm reluctant to do so anyway. I don't think it would help anyway. I'd just prefer if you used something other than 'pretty'...

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Re: [Voice] youthfullgreen October 9 2008, 05:04:43 UTC
I-I see... but I just wanted to know the general opinion about it...
Other than pretty... ?

[pause]

I REALLY LIKE YOUR MANLY FEATURES!!!

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